Friday, March 13, 2015

Man's Best Friend {Dreaming Edition}

When I was little...really little...my family had a big dog. A Collie-ish dog. I think it was a boy. Not sure. Dusty was his/her name, and I have a couple of pictures from my childhood that feature Dusty in them. I'd show you, but the best one of Dusty also shows my mom bending over in the yard, picking up sticks. Pretty sure that would not go over well. {You're welcome, Mom.}

After Dusty...ahem...passed, my parents brought a new puppy home. He was a birthday present to me, and I promptly named him Poky. You remember that Little Golden Book, right? The Poky Little Puppy? I thought they had a resemblance...
{Please take a moment to notice how well I rocked the bangs. Thank you. Thank you.}

I loved Poky and wanted to take him everywhere. And sometimes I succeeded in that plea:
Poky didn't adjust well to life at our house...he was a bit more aggressive than we could handle {though he looks otherwise in these pictures!!} so we found him a new home and our next try with a dog was this little guy:
That's a chihuahua puppy. I named him Lassie. Do not judge.

I loved Lassie. He was the best dog. And when he died at far too young an age, we were all devastated. I think my parents were so traumatized by losing Lassie that they just washed their hands of dogs entirely and moved to cats.

And we had cats from the time I was a second grader until I left for college.

As you know, I kept the cat tradition going - mostly because when I was first out of college, I couldn't afford a dog, and then I was just too busy to have a dog and really spend the time with him that I should.

But my dream of owning a dog has never died. Obviously right now, the queen of the castle wouldn't THINK of permitting a dog on the premises, so it's truly just a dream at this stage.

But I'm a firm believer in planning ahead, so I'm forever trying to figure out what kind of dog we should get - someday.

Here's my main question: big dog or little dog??

Little dogs don't eat much and they fit nicely in the car when you want to go somewhere. And I remember a time {long ago} when one of my friends brought along her big dog when she spent the night here, and he was SO huge that his tail knocked over everything in my little house. I remember thinking big dogs and little houses don't match so well. But then again - big dogs can go on walks and runs...they can be good guard dogs, and I know my niece would tell me that's the way to go.

She's got a gorgeous dog that Ryan and I sorta wanted to keep when he visited a year ago:
So that's my working-ahead-years-in-the-future conundrum. If there is ever to be a Shafferland pooch, what should we get??

12 comments:

Heather Hoffeditz said...

We have a black lab that has been a great dog up until the last couple years and now she is a Houdini and digs out of our fence and now has mastered breaking out of her kennel. My next dog, if we get one would be a Bassett hound. They look very lazy and content to lay around and not try to be an escape artist.

Bekah said...

LOL!! I think the lazy lap dog would be great. Until it's time to go running. And then I'd say to Ryan...you go. I'll stay with the dog. zzzzzzzzz :)

Delta R. Vines said...

Bekah,

I highly recommend Bichon Firse as a dog. They are amusing, and very smart. They do love their owners. They also, in general, live a long time. Small dogs tend to live twice as long as larger dogs. The caveat with dogs such as Bichons, poodles, etc., is the need for frequent grooming. (coat should really be brushed daily, haircuts are needed, etc). Yet, I cannot imagine life without ours. We also love our little Maltese. My advice about Maltese are to get males if you can. Our experience is that females tend to get the physical problems more than males. (Our vet confirmed that as well). We love our Maltese dearly. She is our second one, however, with physical problems. She has Cushings and so far we haven't had to do the heavy duty medications. Maltese are loyal doggies and loveable as well. BOTH our small dogs need to be walked as it is something they love. Most dogs do, regardless of their size. :-)

Delta R. Vines said...

Oops, that's Bichon FRISE. my bad on the spelling.

Lori said...

One just like Murph!

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Christina said...

Well, I have very limited experience here, but I'll share what I do know.

Our dog Bella is German Shepard/Lab/Hound mix, but mostly G.S. She is a wonderfully sweet dog, but if I had had any idea how badly she would shed....well, she wouldn't be our dog. It never ends and it's not just a little hair. There is no way to keep up.

She is also very stubborn, which is a typical G.S. trait. Very loyal and loving and really a giant baby, but stubborn. She is also the biggest scaredy-cat you could imagine. When the power goes out, our smoke detector and/or modem starts to beep. It's just a beep, not a blaring alarm. Bella loses her ever-loving mind and will.not.calm.down.until.the.beeping.stops. She also must lay ON YOU while panting so heavily that you think she will surely pass out, until the "Crisis" is over. This is especially fun in the middle of a steamy summer night with no power or A/C.

We have been fortunate that the only thing she has consistently decided to destroy is herself. We firmly believe she must have suicidal tendencies because she has eaten way more chocolate than any dog should be able to tolerate as well as what should easily have been a highly lethal dose of ibuprofen (19,000 mg. in one dose...and that is not a typo.)

However, she rarely ever barks (she tends to be an excited howler, which is completely not the sound a dog that looks like her should make), but I could probably count on two hands the number of times she's actually barked at something...and that's over 8 years. I find smaller dogs bark a lot more, which I could not handle.

Also bear in mind....big dog, lots of food and big poop. Little dog, less food, smaller poop. Just trying to keep it very practical here.

Unknown said...

I second the Bichon Frise. We have 2 and LOVE them!!! For my entire life, I have been the opposite of an animal lover and I told my kids they were more than welcome to get a dog once they moved out of the house!!! However, my 9 year old daughter absolutely loves animals and so I gave in and we got our first Bichon and named him Boaz (I named him after my absolute favorite story in the Bible!!) I adore him. My dad thought I was crazy! But he was everything I didn't know was possible in a dog...no drool, no shedding, no smell. And because he was so wonderful, we got a second one a year later and her name is Ruby. We wanted to name a girl Ruth but my daughter thought that Ruth sounded like a big dog's name. And if we had another human daughter (we're done), we would have named her Ruby so that's how she got her name. Bichon Frises are the friendliest dogs. So happy all the time and the best lap dog. And it's even better now that we have 2. They love each other and play together all the time which wears them out and then they aren't as much work for us. :) I love them and they have become my babies. My dad wonders what I did with his daughter!! :)

Bekah said...

Delta - My friend Lois had a Bichon when she lived here - definitely a cutie!! I had forgotten the life span of small dogs vs big dogs!

Lori - I do love Murph. Can we clone him?

Christina - LOL!!! The poop comment! I definitely do not want a yippy dog - I do know that.

Tia - I want a lap dog!! Ryan has his lap cat, so I want my lap dog! :)

Anonymous said...

I had a beagle when I was growing up, and a cocker spaniel in my 20s/30s. Loved both of them. Cockers require grooming, beagles not so much. Both breeds are in the 20-30 pound range when full grown. Kids were begging for another dog since the cocker passed 8 years ago & we finally gave in last summer. Kids wanted a big, active dog (think ranch herding type & 80-100 pounds) but since we live in town, we couldn't say yes to that. We know several families that have golden retievers. Goldens are great family dogs, but large & lots of hair. We also have 2 cats so I wasn't loving the idea of that much more hair either. We chose a male beagle. He's been great, but walking him is an adventure because of all the smells to smell. (Stopping & pulling the leash.) Forget about running with him, he's too much of a smeller (not sure that's a word, just go with it). Getting him neutered this week, hoping that helps with training.

Unknown said...

My little Willow is a great lap dog...3 lbs. She only barks when people walk on "her" sidewalk. ...and when the furnace comes on...she seems to think there's a monster in the heat ducts.

Natasha said...

My vote would be "no dog" but that's just me :) It sounds like you are planning well ahead of time.