Saturday, August 31, 2024

Saturday Suggestions: Inspirations for Your Weekend

 Labor Day weekend has arrived! The unofficial end of summer and the unofficial beginning of fall. We are hoping to sprinkle a little of both into our weekend. We went on a little ice cream date last night before enjoying an quiet evening at home. I’m grateful for some quiet. And I’ve had a lot of fun rounding up some things for you! Enjoy!

ONE. 

I don’t know that Ryan would think this is the best vacation on the planet…and in fact, I am confident he would NOT think this is the best vacation on the planet…but I think it sounds grand. Hobart, New York. Have you heard of it? Apparently it is a small town – to the tune of 400 people – with seven bookstores. What an amazing ratio of people to books! I’d love to spend a day (or ten) there. Wouldn’t you?

TWO. 

Audrey from Putting Me Together wrote about having a color palette for your wardrobe, and I have to say, learning this from her a few years ago was an absolute game changer for me. Not only have I learned more about what colors do and do not look great with my hair color and skin tones, but I’ve learned how to buy things that mix and match well so I have more options with a smaller number of items.

THREE. 

Anyone need pointed in the direction of a good sale? SkinnyTaste has this list of some great kitchen-related items that are on sale for Labor Day weekend! BONUS: And here’s another curated list of some sales on Amazon. (Some SUPER cute stuff on it that tempted me for sure!)

FOUR. 

You know how we’re working hard to eat healthier? This link isn’t it. But whoa. If you need a fast, fun, cute snack, this IS it. It’s an entire snack mix made up of mini cookies and candies. Adorable beyond words, quick to assemble (because you don’t have to cook ANYTHING), and I’m pretty sure the only complaint you’ll get is the sugar crash that follows!

FIVE. 

I think I’ll be bringing out the fall stuff this weekend. I like to decorate for Christmas early (because it’s so much work) so I lose part of November from the fall décor season. I like to make it last through September, October, and the first part of November before I move along to decking the halls for Christmas! This post has a TON of ideas for all things fall! Printables, planners, décor, and more!

SIX. 

I enjoyed going to the Flower Patch throughout this summer to pick flowers for our home. Though I’m not super skilled at flower arranging, I did my best, but sometimes I wished I had a flower frog (a piece that helps hold the flowers in place), but I don’t. This post has a tutorial for making one with baking clay. I love a good DIY, so I’m sharing it with you, too!

BONUS:



            This week’s capsule wardrobe photos…

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Friday, August 30, 2024

Foodie Friday: Refrigerator Pickles

 


I’ve always loved dill pickles – and only dill pickles. I’ve tried loving sweet pickles and just can’t. A few years ago, I discovered dill pickles in the refrigerated section of the store and was immediately ruined for life. No more weird-green dill pickles from the shelf for me. If it’s not refrigerated, it’s not going on my plate. I try not to be a food snob about most things, but it turns out I am a dill pickle snob all the way.

            Last year I planted cucumbers, and they failed miserably. This year, they did just the opposite. What in the world could I do with a million (slight exaggeration) cucumbers? Well, I decided to try my hand at making refrigerator pickles. I’ve never attempted anything like this before and was quite nervous about it.

            We had to buy canning jars, though to be clear, this is not a canning recipe. We just didn’t own those kinds of jars to hold them. I hoped this would succeed because I didn’t want that to be a wasted investment.

            And it was not wasted. A couple of Saturdays ago, while Ryan worked on a project, I set up camp in the kitchen with cucumbers and dill and garlic…and hoped for the best!

            I used this recipe, though much of it was a guessing game on my part. I was using smaller jars than the recipe talked about, and I wasn’t sure how much of the ingredients to put in  - with the dill and garlic. I’ll tell you what I did, and I will tell you that it tasted so good.



Refrigerator Pickles

Note: I used 12 pint jars, but if you have a different number or size of jars, it can impact the ingredients you’ll need.

Note #2: I have no idea how many cucumbers I used. Most of mine were fairly long (because they hid on my plants!) so one of my cucumbers might be two normal cucumbers. I chose to cut mine in slices rather than spears, so I just cut enough to fill (but not pack) my jars.

Note #3: The original recipe post has a ton of helpful hints and tips, so if you want to know more than I can tell you from my limited experiment, check out what she has to say!

Note #4: I ended up making 3 batches of the brine, and that filled my 12 jars (with cucumbers also inside) if that helps you guess what you might need. The numbers below are for one batch.

10-12 pickling cucumbers (or whatever you have in whatever quantity you have)

4 cups water

2 cups white vinegar

2 Tablespoons salt

1 teaspoon sugar

1 bunch fresh dill

Garlic cloves (see below)

Peppercorn kernels (see below)

Thoroughly wash cucumbers and cut into slices or spears. Set them aside. To prepare the brine, combine water, vinegar, salt, and sugar in a saucepan. Bring to a boil and make sure sugar and salt dissolve. Remove pan from heat and cool to room temperature.

Layer the cucumbers in the jars. Add sprig of fresh dill (remove thick stems), 1 clove of smashed garlic, and about 10 peppercorn kernels. Don’t overfill the jar. Pour enough brine into the jar to cover cucumbers. Seal with lid and store in refrigerator. Wait at least one week for maximum flavor, and they should last for at least six weeks.

Note #4: I wasn’t sure how much garlic or dill was too much or not enough. I tried to put in about a teaspoon’s worth of dill and 1 smashed garlic clove, and that seemed to be good for our tastes in a pint jar.

Note #5: Peppercorn kernels are really pretty! I chose a jar that had multiple colors and it made my jars so pretty!

I’m so happy I know how to do this now, so I know how to make them from here on!



Thursday, August 29, 2024

Updates on Dreams and Goals for August 2024

 


This month felt a little weird in the department of dreams and goals. I didn’t feel like I attacked them with the fervor I usually do, but that’s okay. It was still a full month with much accomplished, and because I didn’t do everything on the list, I had space for other things I didn’t know I’d need room to do.

            ONE. Take new headshots. Second month in a row I failed at this one. I don’t think good weather and good hair aligned with any days we were at home and had the time to accomplish this one. I’ll just keep putting it back on the list. Everything will work out one day, surely.

            TWO. Finish our vacation scrapbook. Done! And I kept up pretty well with Lexi’s book and our chronological book. I am pleased with this! (Also – ahh, how I love making albums. Happiest place.)

            THREE. Finish baking challenge. SOLID FAIL. I don’t even think I crossed one more item off the bingo card. Nevertheless, I did bake a lot this month and made some GREAT food for us at home. I celebrate that.

            FOUR. Complete my sabbatical speaking assignment and make sense of what I learned. This might have been too lofty a goal. I did complete the assignment and am thrilled with all the time and effort I was able to devote to it. I am not saying I did a perfect job, because I certainly did not, but I could not have devoted more to it than I did, and that’s all I could ask of myself. As to making sense of what I learned…I thought I did that really well, until I started asking too many questions of my heart. So did I make sense of any of it? This remains to be seen.

            FIVE. Write ½ hour every day. Oh my. Yes and then some! I was a writing FOOL all month long. I learned so much. I had the best time. It was life-giving, soul-filling, and everything else. This was a great exercise for me and gave me much joy and purpose.

Other accomplishments from the month include…

·         I studied the Gospel of Matthew in-depth and learned so much. It was a big task to tackle – diving deeply into almost a full chapter every single day. (A couple of days I got to split a chapter.) I made notes, highlighted verses, read commentary, and loved the chance to learn in depth.

·         Adding workouts to my week. As I shared with you a couple of days ago, I added in some workouts from the Christ Glorified Fitness YouTube channel, and I absolutely feel stronger than I did at the beginning of the month. I plan to keep going with this one!

·         We enjoyed several sunset boat rides. In a season that pushed us to be busier than we like, carving out some time in the evenings to be slow and relax was pure joy.


·         I learned how to freeze green beans and make refrigerator pickles, so this felt like an accomplishment, even if my baking Bingo card didn’t include either of these adventures.

·         We got to see our friend Brent in concert and our friend Jim at his illusion show, so those were both a lot of fun. Old friends for the win!


·         We hosted my niece when she came to surprise Mom ahead of her heart procedure. We didn’t know when the month started that she was going to come (and she didn’t either) but we loved having her and sharing our home with her.

·         I was able to spend the day with Mom (and family) at her heart procedure earlier this month. I am glad she is doing better since that day!

·         Had fun picking flowers at the Flower Patch and making some bouquets for our home and for Mom!


·         Ryan was able to finish the last of our outdoor projects for this year. It was a big undertaking, and he is thankful it is finished!


·         Ryan also helped with a benevolence project for a friend. It was a much bigger job than he anticipated, but he (and a friend) got it done!

·         We helped out with the baptism service at our church. It was a sweet day.

·         I baked a lotta cookies and cakes for Mom and Dad’s 70th anniversary project. (See? I did bake! Just not according the Bingo card.) We also helped host said party.

·         We started helping (temporarily) with kids ministry at our church for the midweek services.

·         I attended the Chosen Women’s Conference – same one I spoke at last year – and cheered on my friend, Michelle, as she spoke this year.

·         Had some friends over for dinner and playing in the lake!

I might be tired now – just from seeing all that in print!

Wednesday, August 28, 2024

Bekah's Bookshelf: My 2024 Reads So Far

            I didn’t read as many books in August as I did in July, because I used my half hour each day this month to write instead of read. Still, I’m thankful for everything I did finish, and here are my thoughts on those books!

Back when Ryan worked at Love INC, we often visited area churches to give updates on the ministry and share about financial needs. One of the churches we visited had a library in the area where we set up our table, so I spent a long time looking at books. They had a series called “Secrets of Wayfarers Inn” published by Guideposts, and I really wanted to read them. So when I found them in our library, I was so excited!

At the end of July, I finished the first book, Family Secrets, written by Becky Melby. (I’m a bit nervous that each book is written by a different author. I’m not sure how I feel about that. Actually, I am sure how I feel about it, so I hope I am proven wrong.)

In Family Secrets, we meet a trio of best friends: LuAnn, Tessa, and Janice. Two are recently widowed, one has never married, and all three are recently retired and looking for a life adventure. They find a historic building for sale in their home area of Marietta, Ohio, and while touring it, they learn it was a stop on the Underground Railroad.

They immediately see the potential in the old building and craft a plan to turn it into a bed and breakfast and soup café. They’ve been warned the building is haunted, and while they don’t believe in haunted buildings or ghosts, they can’t deny the strange happenings. Screaming sounds, unusual items that seem planted for them to find, and warnings written on mirrors.

They also find an old journal written by someone active on the Underground Railroad back in the day. The three friends work to figure out missing pieces of the puzzle from years gone by – and some present-day mysteries, too.

I loved it that while this was an easy read, it wasn’t super cheesy. I also loved the notes at the end of the book about the real building in Marietta, Ohio, that inspired this book. Too bad that Marietta is four hours away and too far for a day trip, but it’s not SO far that we couldn’t visit one day!

**


            Right after I read Family Secrets, I read the second book in the series: River of Life. In this book, the three ladies who purchased Wayfarer’s Inn are knee deep in the extensive renovations necessary to make the building ready to receive guests. While they plan and shop for decorations for the Inn, they uncover another mystery surrounding the building and its historic past as a stop on the Underground Railroad.

            This time the questions surround an antique quilt, named The River of Life. Historians said the quilt was stitched to hold clues about the Underground Railroad and those saved through it – but it’s missing. And then the ladies have reason to believe it is actually in the Inn!

            Trying to solve a mystery that is handed over to the FBI is not something any of the ladies ever saw happening in their lives, but it is, in fact, happening.

            Woven throughout the story are additional journal entries from the young lady who lived and worked at this stop on the Underground Railroad, and the end of the book contains additional pieces of factual history that tie into the fiction in the story. (And there’s a recipe at the end, too!)

            I was nervous about this book having a different author than the first one (this one written by Kathleen Y’Barbo) but I felt like the flow worked well between the two books, and had I not known they had different authors, I would not have known from the writing itself.

            I plan to pause and read some other types of books but I’ll soon be back to this series for sure!

**

            When my parents downsized their house, they let go of many books that had been part of their home library. I snagged their copy of Holiness for Ordinary People by Keith Drury. I’ve written about Keith a few times lately. He passed away earlier this year – very unexpectedly. He was my New Testament Survey professor in college and oh my goodness, reading this book was like being right back in his class. I could see the excitement in his eyes and hear his voice saying the words I was reading!

            This book isn’t new at all, but it’s the first time I read it and it won’t be the last. (I saw in a Facebook tribute written about Keith by one of my college classmates that he regularly returns to this book to learn a little more at a time.) I get it now. This book is rich in information, and while I am glad I have read through it once, once is most certainly NOT enough.

            One of my favorite things about this book was reading the highlighted version my parents owned and seeing the thoughts that stuck out to them as they read. I underlined some of the same things they highlighted, and in other instances, completely different passages stuck out to me as quite important.

            Keith was such a wise and gifted teacher, but this book isn’t so academic that it’s beyond understanding. He takes tons of “churchy” words and ideas and makes them understandable to anyone who picks up the book to read. He explains the deep commitment that God asks of us in living a holy life, but he also explains how even the most ordinary person can live that holy life. He uses storytelling, Q&A, and simple explanations on a loop throughout the book to teach this concept, and it’s rich in so many ways.

            This month has been a month of deep learning for me. Lots of extra in-depth Bible study. Lots of wrestling. And I am glad that this study on holiness was in the mix of what I’ve been learning. I will absolutely be coming back to this book multiple times in the future to learn more and more from Keith’s wisdom – in bite-sized pieces. I’m so glad this book is now part of my library!

**


            This month I finished an eleven-week Bible study that I started earlier this summer. I’ve mentioned it in passing on here before, but now that I am done with it, I want to tell you more! It’s called Jacob and is written by Darlene Schacht of The Time Warp Wife. She has written several Bible studies that are available for purchase online, but if you aren’t in a place to afford them, you can also subscribe to her newsletter and have access to the chapters for free. Jacob is her newest study, and I did it independently this summer.

            Loved. It.

            Darlene’s studies are similar in layout to what you might expect from Beth Moore or other study writers. They are workbook-style with blanks to fill in, although hers are more essay style than fill-in-the-blank word-for-word.

            I really like her writing style because she’s meaty and thought-provoking, but she doesn’t write over your head, which I also love. If some Bible studies are too intense or academic for you, I don’t think you’ll find her to be this way.

            Her study on Jacob walked through Jacob’s life from birth until he moved back to his home country and reconciled with Esau. The study looks at Jacob’s maturation in faith, his relationship with both God and family, and so much more. I learned a TON about the wells he dug (and redug), the blessings, birthrights, dreams, brokenness, and restoration. I’ve studied Jacob before and know quite a bit about his life and STILL took a ton of notes and wrote many details in my Bible.

            I am so glad I did this study and will be picking out a new one of hers to do next!

**

            Ryan came home from work one day with a book one of his coworkers had shared with him for me to read. It’s one probably many of you have heard of, because it’s newer and the author is well known, but it was all new to me! He said he was nervous I might not like it, because it was historical fiction and a secular author, but I told him I’d give it a try. And I’m so glad I did!

            The book (not a tiny one AT ALL – over 400 pages) is The Women by Kristin Hannah. The book is about the Vietnam War, which is new territory for me. I did not learn much about it in school, unfortunately. It tells the story of Frances (Frankie) McGrath, a young nurse from an affluent who chooses to join the army so she can do her part to help her country and be viewed as a hero in her father’s eyes.

            The story part of the book is captivating. The history part of the book is hard on the heart. I don’t know that I’ve ever had to take breaks from a book because the content was so heavy. I’ve read many reviews about this book and a lot of readers who served or are close to those who did say the description of combat is well done. It’s raw, graphic (though I am sure still much more subtle than reality), and heartbreaking.

            I think one of the things that surprised me most were the chapters about post-war life. Again, because I didn’t learn much about this war in school, I did not know what life was like for soldiers coming home, about the general view of this war from the American public, and especially what it was like for women who came back and were not perceived as those who had spent time in the thick of the fighting.

            Reading this book helped me make sense of the hard inner battles fought by those who served in war battles. The nightmares, the drinking, drugs, and broken relationships. The families and friendships torn apart. The two worlds – here and there.

            I know from this book that I could have learned history so much better using a living book style of learning vs. a textbook style. I’m glad I read it – even though it was a hard one for the heart. If you can handle the rawness and roughness of the life it portrays, I recommend reading it. I know I came away with a new sense of gratitude for both the military and the medical personnel!

**

            This book wasn’t a first-time read for me, but I enjoyed it just as much as the first round! Back when we lived in Kokomo, I spent a year slowly combing through the Gospels, and I read a commentary to accompany each book. This month I reread the Gospel of Matthew – completing it all this month – and as I read and studied, I reread The Commentary on Matthew: The Gospel of the Kingdom by C.H. Spurgeon.

            I loved this book and underlined so much in it when I read it the first time, and I still found new nuggets to love this time.

            Spurgeon lived many years ago, so he writes using the King James Version – and he also has a big of an archaic (aka beautiful) manner of writing. His words are deep and meaty, and I wish more books about Scripture were just that way.

            I appreciate all I learn in insights about the parables, the life of Christ, and the references to the Old Testament. If you’re trying to better understand Matthew, and you’re willing to put in the time to read and understand, I think you can learn a lot from Spurgeon! (I know he isn’t everyone’s favorite, and I can’t say I fully agree with all his words, but I do learn a lot from him and think he is overall wise and insightful!

            I’ll put this one back on the shelf and probably read it again in a few years as I go back through this Gospel again!

Tuesday, August 27, 2024

Fun Finds for August 2024

 


Closing in on the end of another month here…how is this possible? I feel like I haven’t been very much fun this month, so my “fun finds” might be limited. But I’ll share what I stumbled across, and who knows? Maybe my limited finds will be fun for you too!

            A few weeks (months?) ago on some random post, I told you about a YouTube workout channel that one of my Sunday School friends shared. I hadn’t tried it. I just passed it along to you. Well, this month I tried it! It’s proving to be a good fit for me, so I’ll share it again here at the start of this. The channel is called Christ Glorified Fitness, and the specific set of workouts I’m doing right now is called the 12 Week Transformation Challenge. She has other playlists too, and while she does have a members-only section, I think she has a good choice in the freebie section! Anyway! All of that is just the backstory to this first fun find.

            Because I won’t work out on Sunday, because I do boot camp one day a week, and because I sometimes miss another day for one reason or another, I was having a really hard time keeping track of the video number I needed to do next. Thanks to Pinterest, I found this habit tracker (it’s blank!) that I printed out and I write in the square the number of the video I did that day – or I draw an X through the day if I didn’t work out. This has been quite helpful in keeping me on track as I’ve gotten to higher numbers in the video count! Since the tracker is blank, you could also use it to keep track of something else!

            Next…our green beans were plentiful this year, and while we ate many “in real time,” we had more than we could consume there for a while. I am not a canning person, so I looked up how to freeze green beans and found this very helpful post. I followed the directions and now we have several bags to use once the garden is done. (And I think our green beans are just about done.)

            My wedding ring is too loose to wear safely, and I refuse to NOT wear it, so for several months, I wore a small silicone band above my ring to trap it on my finger. It worked well, but I didn’t love the way the silicone band distracted from my pretty ring! This month I stumbled on these ring guards when I was at Walmart, so I bought them! It’s been a great (and cheap!) solution for me. One thing to note, though, is if you have trouble getting your ring over your knuckle (even if it’s loose at the base of your finger) this might not work. My mom’s ring is also loose, so I took one of my extra guards to her, but with it on, she couldn’t get the ring over her knuckle.

            I think I’m going to save the details of this one until Friday’s recipe post, but one fun thing I did discover this month? REFRIGERATOR PICKLES!!! I’ve never made them before, but I had a blast trying, and they actually taste delicious!

            So that's what I found. How about you? anything fun this month?

Monday, August 26, 2024

Fun Night Out!

 


Saturday night, Ryan and I had a little mini-date, and I wanted to share it with you!

            Jim Barron, who was (and still is) on the morning team at WBCL brought his illusion show to Ryan’s work, and we went to watch!

            I still keep up with Jim on Facebook, and we’ll talk every now and then, but I haven’t seen him in person for a few years, and I’ve missed him! We happened to arrive the same time he did, so we helped him unload his car, enjoyed the show, and then sat around talking to him for a while after everyone else left. We caught up on his life and he caught up on ours. We helped him reload the car and called it a night.

            Jim is a great radio personality, but he’s also great with illusions and with relating with people on the fly. That’s such a gift – and he has it!







            Ryan had worked hard outside all day and I had been at a women’s conference, but we were both glad we went. We laughed and had a great time. (And it was free!) Date nights for the win!

            PS – from the archives – a photo of Jim and me from back in the radio days!