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Thursday, February 13, 2020
Get a Different Name Day
I'm writing to you late on Wednesday evening for you to read sometime on Thursday, whenever you get up and about and start your blog reading adventures.
I've been on the couch ever since I came home from work. Some mutated version of Ryan's germs finally grabbed hold of me, and I've felt pretty blah all day. No fever, no aches or chills. Just blah. I would have gotten a stellar nap after work had Braeya not felt compelled to play a game of knock-the-picture-frames-off-the-wall. I turned her straight over to Ryan the moment he came home from the gym. And she's slept ever since.
Of course.
We also began getting what could become a nasty winter storm. It started late in the afternoon and is supposed to continue through the night and into Thursday. There's a fairly significant part of me that hopes they're not wrong and I might get a grown-up snow day. (That I could use for unending hours of rest.)
So as I sit here, with old reruns of Everybody Loves Raymond playing on TV and Ryan and Braeya conked out on the couch, I thought we could talk about a just-for-fun holiday that I discovered takes place today.
It's get-a-different-name day.
Have you ever wanted to change your name? Or do you love what your parents named you?
I often get asked if my real name is Rebekah, and it is! (If you didn't already know that.) When I was little, I wanted to be a Becky. I begged my parents to let me go by Becky. They said no.
I tried to go by Beckie behind their back, rationalizing it by customizing the cute spelling. I had a couple of friends at school who called me Beckie, but I don't think any of us believed for a minute that I could pass for a Beckie or a Becky.
For a while I wanted to be a Brittany. I thought if my parents would only have thought of that name, they surely would have chosen it. I can't remember now how many years I secretly hoped I could one day be a Brittany, but I'm also aware now that I am not a Brittany.
I don't remember when I finally transitioned to using Bekah, but I do remember that when I worked in Financial Aid, I had some pretty strict rules about who could call me Bekah. My friends and co-workers could, but when it came to students and parents, I required the full name of Rebekah.
It wasn't until my radio days that I became a full-time Bekah. I decided that saying my full first and last names on-air was cumbersome. and Bekah had a faster, easier flow to it.
I like being Bekah. I think it suits me well. Now that I've overcome the Brittany stage, I don't think I need to have a different name.
But how about you? Any other name dreams ever cross your brain throughout your life?
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My given name is Michele Lee. In my generation, the quantity of Michelle's seemed endless so, as a tween, I wanted to start using my middle name. However, Lee wasn't sufficient. I felt it should be Leigh because I viewed it as a much more feminine version. I tried to convince some friends for awhile that I was going to change it. I wonder now if they all thought I was crazy.
Alas, after time, the mission subsided and I settled into my Michele and resolved not to be bothered when it is spelled as Michelle or often pronounced as Michael by those who are not paying attention.
Well,hmmm, yes, I have a nom de plume...if I ever write a non fiction book, I want to be known as Anne. It’s one of my two middle names (yes, I have two of those) and I think it would be a lovely “book” name. However, I have no storylines in my head so I suspect this will always be simply my dream. Lois
I had a weird spell I wished my middle name (Alexandra) was my first name bc I wanted to be Alex or Ali, so I named my American Girl doll that! There are no nicknames for Tamar that i like (never call me Tammy!) and Tamar it is!
So sorry you're not feeling your best today! I hope it goes away over night so that you can enjoy your Valentine's Day!
YES! I always hated my real name. HATED IT. A bunch of us kids in high school hated our names so we changed them. I picked Ginger and one of my friends suggested the Jinjer spelling and I've gone by that ever since. We felt that the letter J looks skinnier than big ol' fat Gs.
Unfortunately, my family members, including my Mom, call me by my real name, so, now that I'm living with my Mom to take care of her in her elderly age, I have to hear my real name MULTIPLE TIMES A DAY. It is like nails on a chalkboard. LOL
I'm glad your parents refused to allow you to use Becky, only because Bekah is way cooler.
Feel better!!!
When I was in elementary school my best friend had an older sister who was in high school. Her name was Lindsay and I thought she was the coolest of cool. When I played I always changed my name to Lindsay. I think it's so funny my married name now is Lindsey.
Michele - It IS hard to have a name spelled differently from the norm, for sure! Probably hard to find personalized stuff! :) I think both your names are beautiful, but I feel your struggle!
Lois - Oh the stories you could tell, though! You'd probably have to rename everyone in your book, but you could write for years about your adventures. If you ever write about your years with me, feel free to name me Brittany. Ha!
Tamar - I didn't know that was your middle name! It's beautiful! And no Tammy-calling from here!
Jinjer - I had no idea that wasn't your given name! I'm sorry you don't like the one you have but this one is beautiful!
Bethany - WOW! God had that one all worked out, didn't He? How cool! :)
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