Good morning, friends. As some of
you might have seen on social media, today is a hard day in the Shaffer household.
We said a broken-hearted goodbye to our Braeya Jo yesterday. I will talk more
about it another time, but our hearts are wrecked today. The Lord is walking us
through much right now, and this was an expected-yet-unexpected happening.
Today
is also our monthiversary, and while neither one of us feels like jumping in
celebration because of our grief, I must say that we experienced love in a deeper
way yesterday as we clung, literally and figuratively, together in our
goodbyes. I love Ryan more than I can possibly put into words. His grief over
Braeya’s loss is as profound as mine, even though he married into this feline
parenthood. He was such a good dad to her, and she loved him with her whole
heart. How would I ever navigate this without him? I love you, Ryan. Thanks for
grieving with me.
While
we sort our grief, I’ve found some things for you today, and I hope they bring
you cheer!
ONE.
Don’t forget that tomorrow is the time change! If time has
to change, this is the good one – because you get an extra hour of sleep! 😊 Meanwhile, I’ll keep holding out hope that one of these
days, Indiana will pick a time and keep it. I mean…we did it for years, right?
TWO.
This post is so beautifully written, and if you are struggling to
trust the Lord with the deepest prayers of your heart, I encourage you to read
it. Rachel hasn’t written anything that you probably don’t already know, but
you absolutely might need to be reminded of it! The point she wrote about that
God has already been gently nudging me to remember is that He has been faithful
in the past and is unchanging. YES!!!
THREE.
Thanksgiving is coming right up. Have you figured out what
you’re wearing yet? This blogger has a series of ideas to inspire you. Here’s a post featuring leggings, here is one featuring casual outfits, and here is one for dressier outfits. (Are you team casual or team dressy
on Thanksgiving?)
FOUR.
Have you had frozen hot chocolate? I have, and while I
almost always choose coffee in a drink if I can, I have to say this drink is
one of life’s great treasures. I learned about it from my coworker at
WillowBridge, and she did not steer me wrong in this AT ALL. Anyway. Here is a recipe for making it in an ice cream maker! It may not be able to go
on my healthy choices list, but it sure could go on the delicious choices list!
I realize it’s November and cold drinks probably aren’t high on your list, but
there’s always an electric blanket, right??
FIVE.
I read this
post about how to celebrate Christmas like a Hallmark movie, and I think
the author is onto something there! The years we lived in Grabill, Christmas in
the little downtown area really did feel like a movie set. I loved
shopping in the little local shops and seeing the downtown tree lighting
(complete with caroling). I think we need to take advantage of that again now
that we’re in the area of small towns once again. And I want to add eating in a
Main Street restaurant! BONUS: And if you want to look the part while
living the dream, you can read this post to see how to dress like you’re in a Hallmark movie!
SIX.
And speaking of Christmas TV movies, here is a pin
(couldn’t find a link back to the original) with a pass-the-gift plan
for a whole movie-watching party, If you’re throwing a movie-watching party,
you can have everyone bring a gift, and then pass it according to what happens
in the movie and see what you end up with! 😊
BONUS:
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4 comments:
You and Ryan are in my heart. Sending prayers your way.
Losing a pet is nothing short of earth shattering. Sending you love.
Oh, Bekah and Ryan, I'm so sorry for your loss... :(
Brayea will always be remembered when I read your blog and I pray for God's love to fill your heart.
I'm so sorry for the loss of Braeya. I know she was a faithful companion for you Bekah for many years.
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