Thursday, September 10, 2026

Thankful Thursday: 90 Years

 


A little over ten years ago, we threw surprise birthday party for Mom. She was about to turn 80, and we wanted to give her a special day. My sisters and I planned a cookies and canvas party, and we held it at our house in Kokomo. I had so much fun reading back through this post that showed the planning, and this post that showed the party!

                A decade later, celebrating looked a little lower key, but nevertheless, we celebrated Mom’s 90th birthday this week!

                This year has been a tough one for her. Dad’s multiple health events this year have led to significant decline for him. I don’t write a lot about it here, because honestly, I’m not sure how to do that in the most dignified way. It’s not really a secret so much as just hard to know how to share in a way that honors him – and her, too.

                They’ve moved, they’ve wrestled with changes in their health that they can’t even really fully understand, and I know it’s been hard for them. Unexpected.

                And yet here we are, entering a brand new decade with Mom.

                My sister and brother-in-law came to visit on her birthday and brought McDonald’s and pie…so that was pretty much the best day ever!

                Ryan and I visited a little later and brought a balloon and some roses.

                Had to get some pictures with the birthday girl!


                Dad was quiet but was having a pretty good day and spent time celebrating her.

                The day after her birthday, Swiss Village had their annual Friendship Walk, where employees and volunteers take residents for a walk through the community around the building. I would have loved to have been part of it, but I needed to attend a funeral, so Ryan talked Mom into participating in the walk!



                Mom would insist that you know she does NOT need a wheelchair, but it was a long walk, so she happily rode. She still walks for regular things, though.

                These two. 😊


                It’s a good start to the new decade, I’d say!

1 comment:

Shari said...

OH, the challenges of getting old!! Glad you had a nice little celebration with your sweet Mom!