Friday, September 04, 2026

Friday Fun: Let's Go Shopping!

 


Today’s post is almost two weeks behind, but I had so much to tell you about so many other things that happened first! And I’m excited to share with you today’s story.

                I don’t even remember now how many years Kari and I have been friends. I remember how we became friends, but I don’t know exactly when it happened. I was working at IWU in the Financial Aid Office, and Kari’s mom, Sandee, worked next door in the Business Office. Our jobs overlapped quite heavily, so Sandee and I were often in each other’s offices hashing out this or that about a student’s aid or bill. Sandee also adopted me as a third daughter, and I was happy to have her for a second mom.

                When I’d go over to talk to Sandee, she’d often tell me how something I said or did reminded her of one of her actual daughters, Kari, and I’d say, “Well tell Kari I said….” And then Kari would send a message back, and we played that game for quite some time.

                I should add this was back in the day of Yahoo instant messenger. Remember that? Our office used that to communicate between the front/back offices so we could know if someone needed us, and sometimes we sent messages to the Business Office as well. One day, while relaying a message to Kari, Sandee said, “You guys just need to become friends and give me a break. Ha!” So she gave us each the other’s IM handle and with that…Kari and I became friends.

                The messenger days are long gone, but we now text and email all the time – daily, really. We’ve prayed each other though all kinds of things. Her boys were young when we were set up as friends (ha!) and they’re adults now. We’ve prayed over houses and moves and jobs and health and parents and all manner of burdens of the soul.

                We both absolutely hate it that we live so far apart. But we do, and we see each other once or twice a year, maybe.

                Kari loves to shop for antiques, so we decided to a thrifting/consigning/antiquing day this summer. She offered to drive up here, and I made up an itinerary for us to follow to get to all the spots!

                We failed to get a photo at our first stop. Womp womp.  There’s a brand new coffee shop in Bluffton, called The Well. I had met a church member there a few days before our outing and knew Kari would love the shop, so we started there. (You can enjoy this photo of Ryan and me at The Well before Kari arrived. He dropped me off and went to work, and I wrote a sermon while I waited for Kari to get there.)

                Kari and I walked from The Well over to the next block to shop at my favorite consignment store, Fraction Apparel and Home. I found several pieces of clothing there – as well as a few house pretties. Kari found an old school desk that was so cute and SO HEAVY. I carried it to her car, and it’s way heavier than it looks.


                We drove to Monroe to shop at an eclectic little place called This and That. Forgot to get a picture there, too. I wanted to take her to the Shaka Shack, but it was about to close, so we went on into Berne.

                We went to one of my favorite thrift stores, Et Cetera Ecke, and I found a few more treasures there.

                We took a break for lunch at The Filling Station Coffee Haus, and it was quite yummy.

                Then we went to Cuckoo and Co in Berne. It’s a newer shop that houses lots of vendor booths. It was Kari’s favorite stop of the day, as I was sure it would be.

                They have a fun mirror!

                We both found GOOD stuff here.

                Our last stop of the day was a new place in Geneva called The Slanted Mercantile. It’s housed in the sanctuary of an old church, and the floor slopes downward (where the pews sat)…hence the name. No finds for us at this location, but we had fun.

                Our day was over all too soon, and Kari had to drive back home. I can’t tell you how much fun I had and how good it was for my soul to have a whole girl’s day out!

                Thanks, Kari, for making the trip!

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