Wednesday, July 20, 2016

Road Trip Travel Bag

Well first of all, the BIGGEST gift of my day yesterday was reading through all your comments and smiling HUGE smiles at your stories of how you stumbled upon this humble little blog and what you like to read. Seriously. Better than a cupcake. {Whoa. That's a bold statement. Let me pause for a moment.} Thank you for being so kind as to let me know you're there! I think I met some of you for the first time, and I dearly loved it.

Today's post is kind of different, but maybe you'll find something inspirational in it that can fit into your world no matter your life station!

A few weeks ago, Ryan's brother and his family went on a mission trip. We weren't able to attend the fundraiser dinner their church had several weeks before that, and I felt really bad about it. I wanted to do something to encourage and support them, so I decided to put together a little travel gift. I found some coloring books and little games for the kids, a bag of iced animal cookies {do those thrill anyone else's soul like they do mine??} and a selfie stick, just for fun. I put them all in a bag and gave them to my sister-in-law.

You know what I loved? Halfway through the lonnnnnnnnnnnnng day of travel they had, she sent me some pictures, taken using the selfie stick, that showed the whole carload of them having fun with the games and coloring books.

I thought about that this week when I ran across a pin on Pinterest that had some ideas on keeping your kids occupied in the car, and I have to say, this is something my mom did very well when I was little. By the time I hit my teen years, all I needed was a pack of batteries for my Walkman {WOW, I'm old!} and a stack of novels. But when I was little, road trips were just long days in a small space. This was, of course, before electronic games and portable DVD players. This was back when imagination was required.

The trip I remember specifically was our family vacation to Washington D.C. I was between my second and third grade years of school, and the Freelan-mobile at that time was a snazzy station wagon. This was before the rules of car seats, and I was blissfully able to curl up in the way-back of the station wagon with my pillow and blankets and watch the world go by through the hatchback window of the car. And I did just that all the way to Washington D.C. and back.

{BONUS! My mom pulled out the photo album from this trip and took some pictures of pictures. Please excuse the 80's camera quality and 80's hair, but enjoy a peek at our trip!}



Indiana to Washington D.C. isn't horrible, but when you're eight, it's not the quickest. Mom planned ahead and purchased little games and gifts, wrapped them, and assigned each gift a time slot. When the time slot arrived, she'd pass the gift to my sister in the back seat who passed it to me in the way-back, and I'd open it and enjoy something new and different for the next couple of hours before a new gift time arrived.

I still remember that, 30 years later. And now I do it for the Shafferland road trips. Hey, you don't have to have kids to need games on the road! You can BE an overgrown kid who needs games on the road. So anytime we take a trip, I print out some new and fun things we can do while we roll across the miles.

So all of this led to the next portion of my thought process {boy, I bet you're glad you don't live in my brain, huh?}..which is the point of the post.

I am always on the lookout for gift ideas that are budget-friendly, easy to make, and a bit on the different side from what everyone else is doing. This is especially important now that we're on a more limited income than we were!

Enter the newest gift idea in my brain: a travel bag or travel binder. I started a Pinterest board {of course!} to keep track of my ideas, and I'll put it below for you, but I think this is such a fun and different idea, whether for your own kids, for grandkids, for nieces and nephews, or just for people you love who have kids and like to travel.

The ideas I found had already-designed printables that you can just print out at home.. You could also laminate them or put them in plastic sleeves if you want them to be usable with dry-erase markers so they can have a longer life span.

There are also ideas for little games that use supplies you can find inexpensively at a dollar store or maybe even garage sale/thrift store {with good cleaning, of course}.

This is a great time of year to stock up on supplies like dry-erase markers, crayons, and other similar supplies, since back-to-school stuff is on sale.

Even if the kids in your life don't travel a ton {travel is expensive, and I know sometimes families can't afford huge trips...been there!!!}, a travel bag or travel binder could make even an hour or two in the car a bit more pleasant. And it's a great break from electronics, too. {My sister-in-law...the same one from the mission trip...was telling me the other day about some article she read that talked about some of the negative effects already seen in small kids who spend a lot of time on electronic devices, and she said it really made her think about her own kids' time on such things. So even if this idea may seem strange at first to the recipient, I really think it's something they'll appreciate as they see it really IS possible to be entertained apart from a handheld device!}

I'm excited to make one for a gift and thought I'd share it with you in case you want to do the same! And of course, Pinterest has way more ideas than I've pinned on my board. This is just a starting point. Happy hunting and creating!

11 comments:

efulton12 said...

Yeah, I have read a couple of studies about how kids are not developing imaginations anymore. They specifically talked about travel, and how it used to be that you would look out the window, ask questions about what was around you, make up stories, talk to those you were with in the car, etc. Now, kids are so focused on their electronic devices, that they are not required or allowed to use their imaginations in any way. That whole imaginative play part of their brains is not even being developed anymore. All of that to say, this is a fantastic idea!

Tamar SB said...

We never were allowed to have a movie in the car! We drew, we talked, we read. What a nice idea you had!

Bekah said...

Erica - I was trying to remember EXACTLY what Megan had read, but I remember it had something to do with effects shown on kids as young as one. It was crazy!!! I have a friend who has 3 kids {she's a GREAT mom} and she purposed before the first one was born that she didn't want a house full of toys that "did things" because she wanted her kids to develop imaginations and skills that seem to be waning. I have to say, a few years down the road, that it has served them well. Sure, their kids have access to screen time - they aren't completely sheltered and behind the times, but they are artists and imaginative and have a great relationship with each other because that's what they HAVE when they want to have fun. It's inspired me to believe it can be done! And it sort of pushed me to want to foster things like this even if I stand alone. {Which clearly I do not.}

Tamar - I don't think movies in cars were INVENTED when we took that DC trip. LOL!!! I guess I was really fortunate that car sickness was never an issue for me, and I was able to read as much as I wanted. I loved car reading.

Maria Rineer said...

Growing up, I LOVED the back of the station wagon on long trips. Of course there were five us kids so I never had the back seat to myself. Still, it was wonderful. I've noticed another downside of electronics in the car that doesn't have anything to do with a lack of imagination. When kids are old enough to have cell phones (or if movies are playing constantly), they tend to look at their devices constantly and aren't aware of what street names are, where locations close to home are, etc. because they just don't look out the window much. My son has been much more intentional about what's around him lately when I drive because he knows he'll be driving soon and he wants to know how to get to places. But when he was twelve or thirteen, he literally wouldn't have been able to give directions to places that were only a mile or two away from our house.

Bekah said...

Boy, that is true, Maria, and I hadn't even thought of that! What you just said reminded me that when I was young, I created this entire "dashboard" of a car out of paper and taped it to the back of the front seat, stuck a frisbee in between the head rest and the seat and made my own driver's seat. It was fun to "drive" from the back and I absolutely learned to pay attention to things like roads from that!

Anonymous said...

hi its me!!!!

I am a little behind in blog reading... oh summer. you make me happy and crazy at the same time. I LOVE summer but i am out of my routine of blog reading and life!

anyways, happy 10th year of blogging! woo!! that's so so cool.

and why do i love it here?

because it's never the same. NEVER. it's recipes (i am a sucker for those and gets so excited when you post one!) and i love the ryan and bekah date stories. Those are my faves. I love all photos and honest real life happenings. yup i love it all but i have to say my fave posts are the regular life stuff with ryan.

I miss that on wbcl, i gotta say i am forever grateful for that time you were on air when i laughed OUT LOUD regularly. so so funny and so dear to my heart. I was in Kroger parking lot when Ryan proposed on the air, i literally waited to go get my groceries because i had to listen!!!

I am thankful for you and this blog and just your honest heart.

XOXO

Anonymous said...

and by the way... the travel bag for kids idea.. fabulous!!!!!! and i love that you pack one for you and ryan, that doesn't surprise me because it's so cute and fun, love that! XOXO

Bekah said...

Polly - You always make me smile! :) I'm glad you love it all! And I am glad you waited to get your groceries so you could hear the whole proposal!!

SkyePuppy said...

Wow! All of you led charmed lives as kids. The three of us used to bicker in the back seat. "He's looking out my window!" "She touched me! Make her stay on her side of the seat!" That's why, when I had kids, I got a minivan with bucket seats in the center row, so the kids would have less chance of touching each other.

For entertainment on road trips I found audio cassettes of the old radio shows, "The Shadow" and "SusPENSE!" When the kids would get antsy, I'd pop in another episode. We went from SoCal to the Grand Canyon to Bryce Canyon to Zion and back home, and we only played each episode (there were four of each show) twice. Priceless!

Bekah said...

Skye - LOL! I guarantee you if I'd HAD siblings my own age to travel with, I would have been the chief complainer of others using my window for their viewing pleasure. Oh yes. I was pretty territorial that way.

Natasha said...

Given that we're leaving on a 7,000 km (4,400 mile) road trip on Friday, this is a timely post. You can also check out my Pinterest "Travel" board to get some new ideas. And our kids don't travel with screens either. I think it's good for them to be bored, good for them to entertain each other (and themselves), and I survived these long trips without screens so they will too.

And I can show you my "Road Trip Bag Of Fun!!!" as we call it on Saturday!!!! Whoo hoo!!!