Today's post is more of a word of thanks to all of you than anything else. I won't keep you long, won't take too much of your time. Just want to say thanks.
I have sort of a love/hate relationship with social media in general right now. I got rid of my Twitter account, because I hadn't been on it for months anyway. It always was my least favorite platform because of the character limitations. That shouldn't surprise any of you.
I loved Facebook until it started being more about agendas and less about cute puppies and babies. I'm always reminded of how much it has changed when I see my posts from 11 years ago that say "is trying to get motivated to stop watching TV." Ahhh, those were the days. The updates started with your name and all you had to do was fill in the blank with the totally mundane thing you were doing in that moment and then count the number of people who were kind enough to give you a like. I still have Facebook, though I don't think I've posted anything on it since Christmas, and I've snoozed more people in the last month than in my entire history with the thing.
So that has left me with Instagram, which I enjoy scrolling through and reading about RV renovations and new outfits in boutiques. They make me smile. I post on there without stressing about whether or not it's an Instagram-worthy photo, because in truth, I'm not even sure I know what actually classifies as Instagram-worthy. (One of my friends posted something the other day and rushed to say she knew it wasn't Instagram-worthy, and I stared at it for the longest time trying to figure out why!)
My personal unwritten rule of Instagram, though, is to not interact too much with people I don't know in real life. I enjoy appreciating posts of many people I don't know, but I typically don't chime in if they don't know me. Evvvvvvvvvvvvvery now and then I will. But it's rare.
A few days ago, I had a rare moment hit me. Someone I follow posted a musing about whether or not she should bring back her blog. I actually used to read it and miss it, so her questions caught my attention. She asked if anyone still reads blogs and I broke my rule to message her and say I do and I love them! I even tossed in that I'd been blogging for a decade and really enjoy interacting with my blog-world friends.
She didn't respond, and I hadn't expected her to, but she did later post that she learned that no one reads blogs, so she was not going to bring hers back.
I think I blinked twice when I read that because it made me wonder if all of us are no ones! Here we are, hanging out every day, reading and talking a bit, and who knew it was just us over here doing that!?
It's pretty obvious that I blog for the joy of blogging and not for the purpose of meeting all the trends and demands of the blogging world. I do it because I enjoy writing and sharing with you. But none of that would matter if you weren't here reading along!
It's okay with me if I'm never on trend. It's okay with me if I'm part of a nobody group that still embraces something that was so ten years ago.
And that brings me to my thanks. Thank you for hanging out here, reading along, encouraging, and being part of our day every day. And thanks for letting me be part of yours!
Just...thanks.

16 comments:
That person is so wrong. I made five new blog friends last year alone. These are women where we regularly read and comment on each other's blogs. That person clearly just doesn't want to put effort into making blog connections.
Half of my Christmas cards are from church friends and half are from blog friends so I would be the first to proclaim that "Blogging isn't dead."
Thank YOU for blogging and inviting us into your life every day.
Such a great post!! I hate the "I am so not worthy" on IG - just do it for yourself, isn't that what life is about, being content with oneself?
I absolutely love reading your blog, you are so entertaining and real!
I think that as long as people are interested in (/ a tad bit nosy (I know that am!)) the lives of others and bloggers write well (many do, including you), there will always be interest in reading blogs.
I look forward to reading your blog every single day! Please continue to share with us. It's a bright spot in my day. We need some good news in our lives!
OH MY, I cannot even imagine a day without reading your blog!! I really am your #1 fan!! :) Thank you so much for making my life SO much fuller & happier by being here!
I have read your blog for years and enjoy it! It is evident that you put much thought and time in to your blog. I am especially interested now because of your recent job changes....(I am an LCSW in Texas) and admire the work that you and Ryan are doing on a daily basis. Thank you!
Take Care, Julie C.
I enjoy reading your blog every day! It encourages me.
I only go on Facebook now to look up something about a business (like to see what the lunch specials are at the restaurant near work). I also use it to join a YouTuber that I like when she does Facebook Live. Those are the reasons I don't cancel my account, even though I'd like to. I rarely or never read the feeds because they make me feel less than enough. . . not to mention all of the agendas out there, like you mentioned.
Thanks for your message today!
I would miss you so much if I didn't have your blog to read every day. Keep up the good work! You are loved.
Bekah, I want to thank you for blogging. Yours is the only one that I read and I just enjoy it so much. It makes my day.
Your blog is so many things to me, it provokes thought, it encourages me, it helps me improve my own life, it makes me laugh and brings JOY to my day. It is a gift that I'm thankful you still make time for despite your incredibly busy schedule. I would be so sad if it was gone. You are a gifted writer and observer of the world and it helps me be more mindful of mine. - Michele B.
Thank YOU for continuing to write! I’m always so confirmed and happy to read from my blog buddies who haven’t given it up. ❤️ Also, that girl...rude. We are not nobody. Sheesh. 😂
WOW! Thanks so much, everyone! What a boost to the writing spirits your words have been today. It's so good to hear from all of you, and I'm so glad you all show up here (whether regularly or whenever you can) to hang out. I sure have enjoyed the many friendships I've made in this space. Thanks for giving me an outlet for my thoughts and your grace when I'm having a less-than-deep day!
This is my first time to comment. I have just wanted to let you know how much I enjoy reading your blog and look forward to it every day. Thank you for your daily posts! Sandy
Sandy - I am so glad you popped in to say something! Thank you so much for reading and for saying hi! I'm glad you enjoy it!! Sending big hugs!
I am not a blog reader except for yours! I echo what all these other ladies have already stated...you would be extremists if you stopped!
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