Sunday, March 31, 2024

Sunday Sentiments: Thankful

 


He is risen!

            Happy Easter…happy Resurrection Day, friends!

            Today is many things for most of us reading in this space. It’s a day to celebrate together at church. It’s a day to witness baptisms and sing. It’s a day to wear new dresses, gather with family, and eat big meals.

            But most of all, today is a day to celebrate the tremendous miracle of Christ’s resurrection.

            A couple of nights ago, I was wrestling in prayer and somewhere around 2:30 in the morning, I was out of words. I picked up my Bible, cradled it in my arms, and begged God to fill in the blanks where I couldn’t speak any longer.

            It reminded me that the opportunity to pour out my heart to the Lord in the middle of the night and then fall asleep with His Word in my arms is only possible because of that Resurrection Day.

            Words feel inadequate on this day.

            My heart is full of praise and thanks.

            He is risen!

Saturday, March 30, 2024

Saturday Suggestions: Ideas for Your Weekend

 


        Happy Saturday, my friends! I hope you are finding much meaning in your Easter weekend. We’ve enjoyed ours so far and are looking forward to the rest! I found some links for your day…hope you find a keeper among them!

ONE. 

I loved coloring Easter eggs when I was a kiddo. We did the old-fashioned dye kits, dropping tablets into liquid and watching them dissolve. It was so much fun. If I had kiddos for egg coloring, I’d use natural egg color, and this post not only tells you which materials to use to achieve different colors, but it also tells you how to add specific designs, using leaves and more. If you need a last-minute activity for Easter weekend or just want to have a less chemical-laden adventure, check it out! BONUS: I know Easter is TOMORROW, but hereis a great idea for kids’ Easter baskets – plus a GROUP Easter basket. Brilliant.

TWO. 

If you’ve been reading here long, you know I love houses made from churches and schools. Church houses can be kind of tough in finding the best layout because they are sometimes so big that it just looks odd as a house. This one, though. WHOA. It’s gorgeous. It showed up in my Facebook feed this week, and I had to go see all the pictures. The main area feels proportionately perfect, and that library up the stairs???? Sigh. And the soaking tub? Sigh. All of it? Sigh. It’s in Vermont. Also, sigh. 😉

THREE. 

If you are planning any travels this spring or summer, check out KariAnne’sideas for packing light/packing strategically. We’ve gotten better at this over the years…at least the strategically part. I don’t think anyone has ever accused me of packing light. But to be fair, we do a lot of our own meal prep when we go on trips, so much of what I take has to do with food! But back to KariAnne – her stuff is cute and her ideas are great! BONUS:  Ilove her luggage. We are using – and will use until the literal wheels fall off – the set I bought back in 2010 when I did my first solo flying. Those suitcases have gone with us many places and are still in working order. They probably don’t make them like they used to, so we’re gonna keep on with them until they tucker out completely. When they do? Cue the cute stuff!

FOUR. 


I love our little bedroom. Every single night when I crawl into bed, I just stare at the tiny coziness of the room and appreciate how much I love it. One of my favorite things about it is how light and bright it feels. Thispost I stumbled upon this week also shares a bedroom makeover that brightens up the room. So sweet. I love it. If you need some inspiration for your own room, maybe this one will be just the ticket!

FIVE. 


You know I love a good free printable for decorating in our home. Hereis a link to some free art options if you need to refresh a frame in your home. I printed one for ours, but there are a bunch of really cute ones in here! I love printables, because you can keep the same frame (no money spent once you get it initially) and just refresh the look month by month or season by season! (I printed the dandelion watercolor for our house.)

SIX. 

Thispost about putting together a Bible study journal does include products for purchase, but what I loved about it was the idea of using books-of-the-Bible tabs in a binder to keep track of your notes. Silly me – I never thought about using them in anything other than an actual Bible! (Sometimes I am really wonderful about thinking outside the box. Other times? Not so much. This is one of those other times.) Brilliant!

            Have a beautiful Easter weekend, my friends. Much love to you. I leave you with this week’s capsule collections.


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Friday, March 29, 2024

Flashback Friday: Writing Your Story One Week at a Time

 


I’m writing this at 10:30 on Thursday night. Ryan and I were gone this evening to serve at a service at our church, and then we had to pick up some groceries, and then we remembered we had laundry in the washer and a loaf of bread to make. Whoopsie. So the laundry is tumbling and the bread is kneading (thank you, bread maker, for your service) and I am writing to you.

            Today is Good Friday, and whether you’re off work, at work, on spring break, or staycationing, I urge you to take some time to think about the significance of this day.

            This Easter weekend inspired my Flashback Friday topic today – and it’s to think about how you celebrated Easter growing up. I’ve written before about how my family participated in the Marion Easter Pageant and how deeply it shaped my Easter experiences as a child, teenager, and even young adult. I wrote about how much I miss it, lessons I learned from it, shared pictures of it, and some more memories, too.

            All my childhood memories involve this pageant. I remember going to the Headquarters of the pageant (housed in a big old house that smelled like stored costumes…because it did just that) and sitting at a big table to listen to the director go over our parts with us. We played the same parts every year, but she still explained them to us and wanted us to understand the importance of each one.

            I remember going to all the rehearsals in the big, cold gym and seeing all the people we hadn’t seen since the previous year at the same time.

            I remember all the kids gathering beside the orchestra pit to watch and listen to a demonstration on how they created the thunder for the storm so we wouldn’t be scared when it happened during the presentation.

            I remember Wednesday night dress rehearsal, when we finally saw everyone in costume for the first time. I remember how we always went out for a snack after and people would stare at our strange makeup.

            I remember going to bed so early on the Saturday night before Easter and willing myself to fall asleep, because the alarm would go off at 3:15. You know what guarantees a person to NOT fall asleep? A 3:15 a.m. alarm.

            I remember finally falling asleep about 3:14. 😉

            I remember parking in the darkness of night, a block away from the big old building, and half-walking, half-running through the slightly sketchy city streets toward the back door of the building, inside, and down the hall to our frigid dressing room. I remember drinking chocolate milk and eating donuts before putting on the dark makeup. The water for makeup application was always freezing.

            And after the sunrise presentation of the Pageant, we ran out the door and toward the car so we could hurry home, pull off all the dark brown makeup, and get dressed for Easter church.

            Mom always had an Easter basket for me, and I would eagerly dig through it as soon as I’d gotten ready for the day. Candy, nail polish, books…always fun treats inside.

            I always had a new dress for Easter Sunday – and a hat too, when I was younger. New white shoes. Sometimes a new purse!

            We went to church, where I would continue to find traces of brown makeup, and when I was very young, I usually fell asleep during the service. 3:15 a.m. wake-up calls and kiddos don’t mix well.

            After church, we would go to Grandma and Grandpa’s house for lunch with the extended family. And then we would go home to nap some more.

            Ryan and I have our own Easter traditions, including exchanging Easter baskets and usually getting new clothes, too.



            So as you think about and write about life this week…

What were your Easter traditions?

Did you have Easter baskets? What kinds of things did you find in them?

Did you get new Easter dresses? Hats? Gloves? Shoes?

Did you go to special Holy Week services? Sing in a church cantata?

Did your family have Easter egg hunts?

Were there foods you had ever year on Easter?

Did your church have special traditions?

            I always love seeing how traditions change for people over the years. Don’t neglect to document how you celebrated your Easters!

Thursday, March 28, 2024

Updates on Dreams and Goals for March 2024

 

            Here we are, closing in on the very end of March, and I wanted to give an update on the goals I made for the month!

ONE. Decorate the house for spring. This is done – and I shared about it here, if you missed it. I very much love the way it turned out and feel like the whole space looks and feels fresh and light and clean. That’s what I need for spring! I plan to, at the start of April, take down the things that are Easter-specific and leave the rest for the remainder of spring!


TWO. Prep for more speaking. As you read about here, I spoke at three events in March, and I took a vacation day to prepare for more further down the road. Natasha commented that my calendar is fuller this year than in recent years, and it is so true! My April and May are full to capacity, and then come summer, I have a recurring commitment with church. I am grateful for each opportunity and take them all as a great responsibility!

THREE. Try my hand at a little hospitality adventure. I shared about my hospitality basket fun in this post. I really loved this unique project and am glad I said yes to it!

FOUR. Figure out and shop for my spring capsule wardrobe. I have all but three (I think) items from my proposed spring capsule wardrobe. I had fun assembling it from a mix of what I already owned and from things I found at thrift and consignment stores. I have also thoroughly enjoyed wearing it! It’s been fun to have a different mix of pieces and colors each day. As soon as I finish the last three missing pieces, I’ll share what I have put together!

BONUS:

Much more happened this month than those three things! Some are stories for a bit down the road, but here are some glimpses into other things we did in March.

·         Ryan and I are deacons in our church now, and this month brought about some extra responsibilities for that, because it’s Easter month! We wrote and sent out some letters of introduction/encouragement to people in the church, I helped make bread for Holy Week communion, and we are helping with some of the services for this week.

·         I “finished” the living room wall, which I told you about earlier in the month. I’ll still be making tweaks, but I’m calling the project done.

·         I planned our Easter lunch, which I’m super excited about.

·         We went on a couple of dates that were so sweet and low-key: much needed for this busy month.


Ryan served on the worship team at church and helped me with my speaking events. I love watching him serve in his element!

·         We took our godson out for his birthday and had a really wonderful time celebrating with him!

·         The weather was not that great overall this month, so our ability to get outside for regular walks was hampered, but we are really thankful for safety in the literal storms that did a lot of destruction not too far from us.

There was also some napping involved. I’m sure you can imagine why…

Wednesday, March 27, 2024

Fun Finds for March!

 


I’ve stumbled upon a few fun things throughout this month and wanted to share some of them with you today!

Before I begin, I wanted to give you an update on the Souper Cubes I talked about last month! I bought them with a gift card I won at work and the verdict? – LOVE THEM. I had two servings of a big pot of soup that I didn’t want to eat in real time, so I poured them in the cubes, froze them, and then popped them out and put them in freezer bags. Now we’re all set whenever we need a quick lunch or dinner and don’t have time to cook. I told Ryan I also think this will be perfect for the marinara sauce I like to make in batches and freeze for pasta dishes. I’m so glad I bought them!

Now on to this month’s finds!

·         Several years ago (like back in the Marion days) I was a contributing writer for a website run by a friend of ours from our Sunday School class. She used the Trello website to manage all her writers and their assignments. I haven’t used Trello since, but I decided this month to see if it was still free and if I might like it to help me manage some parts of life – like meal plans/grocery shopping, writing/speaking, etc. While you can upgrade to paid versions, it appears you can still operate on a free version for the basics, and I had a lot of fun experimenting with it this month. I put all our meal plans on there and it helped me keep track of my lists, recipes, etc. I used it every single day to remind me of my meal and snack plans, and it is a perfect fit.

·         I tried a new guacamole recipe this month and didn’t like it as much as the one I’ve made for years. I am also working on putting together a new “Shafferland Recipe Box” file for our newfound favorite recipes, and I wondered if I could figure out the nutrition facts on the recipe I had, so I hunted online for a free recipe nutrition calculator. I found this one, and it was fun to use! I put in my ingredients and how many servings for the recipe, and it came up with all the nutrition facts!

·         Speaking of food…I tried a few new things this month. It turns out that I like butternut squash. Who knew?! I’m not sure how often any of you have ever cooked with it, but it has a good taste to it. (It’s a pain to peel and slice, but it’s good!) Heavily recommend using a mandolin (or slicer of some kind) if you’re working with one of these, but I also feel like it is worth the work for the end result of tasty, healthy food. I also tried pears for the first time (that I can remember) in my grown-up life. I have eaten them canned – back in my childhood – and didn’t like them. I decided to try one and learned that I really do love the flavor, but the texture is off for me. Too gritty. I think I can handle them in things like salads, but not on their own.

·         I follow Dawn McVey on Instagram – and she was actually the one who introduced me to the wheat we now mill to make flour. Dawn is an artist and was recently commissioned by her church to paint a full set of armor, which they presented (piece by piece) to women who attended a conference at their church. The story of the whole project was beautiful to read, but my favorite thing is that Dawn made an art print of the shield from the armor set and you can purchase it on her website! (Prices vary depending on the size you purchase.) I LOVE IT because it’s beautiful – and what a perfect reminder of the armor of God! It’s on my wish list.

So there you go! Some fun finds for the month of March. Maybe one of them will be a good fit for you or supply a gift idea for you. Enjoy!!

Tuesday, March 26, 2024

Bekah's Bookshelf: My 2024 Reads so Far

 


Well, my offerings on today’s post are not as robust as I had hoped they might be. Such has been my March. I had hoped to be able to say I had finished two books this month, but I fell short of my goal.



            I did finish the third book in The Chronicles of Narnia, and in the order I’m reading them, that means I read The Voyage of the Dawn Treader. I was a bit nervous about this one when I started it, because in the world of fiction, I’m loyal to the characters, almost to a fault.

            The first two books in the series told the story of four siblings and their travels to Narnia, but in the third book, the two oldest siblings are too old to return to Narnia. The two youngest go back and their cousin Eustace goes with them. I wasn’t sure about Eustace. He was new, and I wasn’t sure I liked him. Actually I was fairly sure I didn’t like him.

            But as the story went along, I grew to really love that snarky kid. He was funny without intending to be, and sometimes (gulp) I found myself relating to him far more than I wanted to admit.

            The story in this book brings back Caspian, from the previous book I read, and the characters are sailing through Narnia in a ship called the Dawn Treader. (You’re picking up on the title now, aren’t you?) I found myself pulling out several quotes to use in future speaking engagements, and every single appearance of Aslan tugs at my soul. The pictures of Scripture are beautifully woven throughout – again – and the story is captivating.

            I loved watching Edmund and Lucy (the returning siblings) growing in their understanding of Narnia – even the mystery of it. I loved watching Eustace find his own place in Narnia, and I loved the deep underlying messages.

            In April, I plan to read the 4th book!


            The other book I had hoped to finish is the one Ryan bought from my wish list and I am loving. I haven’t had time to fully finish it, and I don’t want to rush through it because the material inside is deep and rich (and meaningful) and I want to take my time with it.

            It’s called Crucial Conversations and is a thought-provoking book about handling difficult conversations in productive ways. I’m learning so much from it. I will tell you more about it when I finish it. I’ve loved reading in it throughout the month, even if I haven’t crossed it off my list!

Monday, March 25, 2024

Speaking Snapshots: March 2024

 


I am not even quite sure how we have made it nearly to the end of March, but we have. The month has been full in every way. One of the things I’m grateful for is that I had the opportunity to share messages three different times this month, and today I thought I’d catch you up on them!

            My first event this month was a couple of weeks ago on a Thursday. I was invited to speak at a luncheon, so I took the day off work and enjoyed the chance to do something different for the day. The event was at the Hostess House in Marion, and I haven’t been there in a few years. It’s such a beautiful, historic home, and I always enjoy the atmosphere and the food.


            The group was made up of all women, and the best bonus was getting to hear pieces and parts of their stories. I spoke to them about finding joy in their journey, but I am confident I came away learning more from their follow-up stories than they possibly could have learned from me. It was faith-boosting and encouraging!

            (Ryan didn’t get to accompany me to this one because he was at work, so I don’t have anything beyond a parking lot selfie and a menu photo to share with you.)

            This past weekend, I spoke twice!

            Saturday I went to Fort Wayne to speak at a women’s brunch at a church. The decorating was top notch. Truly, one of my favorite things about speaking at women’s events is getting to see the creativity that goes into all the decorating. They had gorgeous tablescapes, a photo booth, and sweet little favors for everyone who attended!






            I spoke about letting God fill our cups, and the group was incredibly kind. I appreciated their encouragement so much. Ryan went with me, carried things in and out, ran the book table, and helped clean up tables after lunch, too! (Oh yes…the food was absolutely delicious. I should have mentioned that!)







            Then yesterday I spoke at the church where I’ve been speaking once a month. It was a treat to be with them on Palm Sunday! They even had kids coming through with palm branches at the start of the service. So cute! Ryan did the music and scripture reading, and we enjoyed our chance to be with all these people again. They are so welcoming, and now that we have gotten to know them a little better, we feel like we’re just right at home when we’re there.





            This wraps up my speaking for March, but I’m working hard on my events for April!