Tuesday, August 29, 2023

Random Thoughts

 


Today I have all the most random things running through my head, so these words will be a free ride through my mind! Hang on…and maybe you’ll find something helpful in there!

            I am quite an advocate for not hanging onto things you never use. But happily, not following my own advice has benefited us nicely this summer…in the form of a fancy kitchen knife! Years ago, Ryan’s mom gifted us a knife that she said would be perfect for cheese or tomatoes. It stayed in the drawer, and I rarely remembered we owned it. But when we moved away from Kokomo, I couldn’t bring myself to part with it, because it was one of the last tangible gifts she gave us before she got sick. I kept moving it with us, and this year we started using it. We use it all the time now, and I’m so glad we kept it!

            Speaking of moms…this week marked seven years since my mom’s surprise party for her 80th birthday. I watched the videos again and remembered how much I loved that day. It was the first time Ryan and I hosted an event in our Kokomo house, and it was one for the memory books. She had NO idea the party was for her, and the whole day went off perfectly. That goes down as of my favorite hosting events ever.

            It wasn’t our event, but our neighbors across the lake hosted a big party Saturday night, complete with live music. I didn’t know most of the songs (which shouldn’t shock anyone), but I enjoyed hearing the it from the comfort of our patio! A free concert just for us.

            We’ve enjoyed our patio so much this summer. Some days, we only have enough time to sit out there for a few minutes, but we try to take every opportunity to drink a cup of coffee, watch a sunset, listen to the cicadas, watch the eagles, and catch the occasional fish flop in the water.

            Fish reminds me of our trip to Michigan this summer, and the fish boil we went to. That will always be one of my favorite vacation memories, and I’m so glad we chose to put that on our itinerary.

            I’ve been thinking about our decade of trips this week. We have made some sweet memories in these ten years. I’m learning more and more what matters most to us on a vacation, which helps us know where to plan to go next. We love seeing the beautiful scenery God has created!

            I actually worked on our someday dream trip this weekend. It will take me years to plan it, so I try to work on it a little bit at a time. Planning trips is one of my favorite ways to recharge my brain. After I spoke at the conference this weekend, I needed something to keep my brain busy so I didn’t overthink everything I said.

            During the conference, I shared a bunch of pictures from the stories of my talks. Of course, with stories covering so many years, there was an array of hair cuts and colors. Other than the neon orange mistake, I don’t regret any of the cuts or colors I’ve ever had. I have liked some more than others, but they’ve all been a fun way to change up life.

            It may be time to look to a change again. I haven’t decided yet. Stay tuned (in a few months). We’ll see what happens when I have my next salon visit!

            So there you go. Random thoughts from my mind today.

2 comments:

Tracy Gayer said...

Wow! Seven years since your mom's 80th birthday? Enjoy your parents to the fullest!

Tamar SB said...

Loved all of these!