Tuesday, June 24, 2025

Summertime

 


One of my summer goals is to simply enjoy summer. I plan to start school in the fall, and between work and school, I know my time is going to be highly in demand. On the work side of things, I’m trying to make all kinds of extra effort this summer so I can be ahead of the game when fall arrives, but on the home side of things, I’m doing my best to simply enjoy.

                I know that on the calendar, summer just arrived, and to be honest, it also just arrived on the heat index. But in the rhythm of life, I’ve been enjoying summer for a few weeks, and I keep intentionally pausing to be grateful for the simple sweetness of the days.

 I’ve savored our walks and conversations.

I’ve appreciated the sunset cruises on the pontoon.

I soaked up every moment of our vacation and the hikes we enjoyed.


Snacks and coffee on the patio? Yes please.

The flowers have been extra pretty this year, and I just can’t get enough of them!


 Walking downtown for ice cream was fun!

 Sunsets, sunsets, sunsets!

                I’m looking forward to more of these simple moments. Summertime is made for slowness and savoring! How about you? What summertime goodness have you enjoyed lately?

Monday, June 23, 2025

Learning Our Style (Part 2)

 


A month ago, I wrote this post inspired by something I’d read online about how to learn your style in your home. I felt validated (though it didn’t matter if I hadn’t) that in the eyes of the author, I’d done some things right in learning our style. And then I kept thinking about the whole topic, and I wanted to share some additional, more specific insights today.

                I mentioned in my post a month ago that part of my style is all about the thrift store and garage sale. The bulk of that is to save money, but part of it is also the thrill of the chase. 😊 One lesson I’ve had to learn along the way is that good thrifting still involves a healthy dose of being choosy. It doesn’t matter if you saved fifty bucks on something if it doesn’t fit what you really love. So here are some of the things I’m learning about my/our style. We’ve already implemented some of it. Other parts have yet to be added as we go.

                Our home is a smorgasbord of wood tones. Some things are dark, espresso wood tones. Some are a proper cottage-y ash. Others are hand-me-down oak. I never gave much thought to what type of wood I like in my home until recently. Know what I learned? My favorite is pine, and we have no pine. I’m not going to run out and replace everything, and because some of our furniture has come to us by way of family, I’ll never have an all-pine house. But I love lake cottages with pine furniture and will keep that in mind as we buy in the future. (I also really love painted wood, which is a HOT AND DIVISIVE TOPIC these days, so I’m not going to dive into that here.)

                I love blue and white. I did not know that for many years. I started paying more attention to blue after I married Ryan, because it’s his favorite color. But we’ve started incorporating more blue in the last five or so years, and I really, really love it. We have a lot of navy in this house, which feels nautical to me, but I love blue in other shades, too. And white, especially when you live in a small house, feels so bright and spacious. My goal is to continue to integrate blue and white in our décor, from blankets to pillows to bed coverings to dining dishes.

                Plants make a happy home. I don’t know if it is fair to say that my mom didn’t have a green thumb. But it is fair to say we didn’t have plants in our house growing up, and she didn’t love working in flower beds or landscaping outside (at least in my lifetime). Because of that, I wasn’t a plant person until the last five or so years. It wasn’t a pandemic thing for me, actually. I know a lot of people became plant people in the pandemic, but I wasn’t one of them. It started with a peace lily from our church when Ryan’s mom died. It perished after we moved to the lake, because it landed in the room where plants go to die, but we didn’t know that. It was the first casualty. Prior to that, though, it thrived, and I loved the idea that I could grow plants! I don’t want the house overrun by them, and we have to be careful where we put them because there are rooms where plants go to die. But I love having a few and think they bring such life to the house.

                I love lamplight. We almost never use overhead lighting at home because it’s way too harsh for my personal taste. But lamps? Give me lamps all day long. We have a few that need replaced. They’re over 20 years old and not even close to our style. But I haven’t found what I love to replace them yet, so they stay.

                We love a little bit of industrial flair. We fell in love with it from visiting coffee shops with exposed brick walls and metal accents. And we’ve tried to subtly incorporate it into our last few homes. We have metal pipe-looking curtain rods, and several of our furniture pieces have iron accents on them. Our railings for our staircase are metal. We have some metal shelving accents. We don’t want it to take over the house, but we do love it.

                We love texture. I didn’t know about it until the last couple of years, but now that I’ve discovered it, we both realized we love it. Little baskets and ceramic pots for plants. Rugs on hard floors. Blankets and pillows on couches and beds. Curtains at the window. Flowers in vases. We love a mix of patterns and materials and feel like it all marries together so beautifully to create a home.

                And it’s not just about the inside of the house. I’m slowly learning what we love outside, too. I told Ryan I think this year is the closest to perfection to our style I’ve gotten our outside planters. I’ve learned that I really love petunias in pink and purple. I love the bright green and purple coleus plants for fillers. I love tall grass in the middle of a planter. And I love a couple of the spiller plants that I can’t think of the name of right now. Pink and purple fit our lake feel best I’ve played with lots of colors over the years, but I landed on these. And ferns! We love our ferns.

                Home is always becoming, and ours will become for all the years we live here. I am excited to continue to hone it, while honoring what we have and love!

                How about you? Anything you’ve discovered that you love about your style – inside or out?

Sunday, June 22, 2025

Sunday Snapshots: Memorable Moments from the Week

 


Good morning, friends! This week has been a long one…not in a bad way. It’s just that Father’s Day seems about 1000 years ago, not a week ago. Anyone else? The week had its highs and lows, but I’m grateful for each of the days. Here are some of the moments that stuck out most.

Last Sunday was Father’s Day, and as I shared cards with those who have recently lost fathers…and read posts from Ryan’s sisters about their father, who has passed away…I was grateful to get one more Father’s Day with my dad.

We hosted the young ladies from the Bible study I help teach for a night of fellowship by the lake. We ate snacks, talked on the patio, and went for a pontoon ride before they headed home. It was fun to get to share our home with them. I am pretty sure it was the first time any of them had ever been here!

This week marked the end of an era: Ryan taught his last Boot Camp class at the gym. Our schedules are just too unpredictable, and we both knew it was time to say goodbye to this chapter. I’m grateful for it. We made some new friends along the way, and it was a good discipline for us in different ways. But I think we were both ready to say goodbye to it.

Our youth pastor asked me to share a little devotional thought at the youth group gathering this week. The day of the gathering was fraught with every conceivable delay and glitch, and I’d cried off all my makeup before noon. And then, on the way to the gathering, we were hit with a pretty bad storm, and the power was out when I arrived. We gathered in a dark living/dining room with candles everywhere and the front door open to let in some air, and we had mini-church anyway! 

Ryan worked a golf outing for Swiss Village this week, and he had so much fun doing it. I love it that he has the opportunities to work events like this where his people-loving personality can shine so brightly! Also…can we pause to appreciate the beauty of the charcuterie snacks they made for the golfers??

Lexi has been extra cuddly this week. Not sure why, and also not complaining! Ryan grabbed this picture of her sitting with me one night, and it made me happy. Goodness, we love that little girl with our whole hearts.

The work that we each do is filled with moments where we can make plans, and then we might have to abandon them to tend to those who need us. We had those moments this week. But we also had a little time to get away for some fun shopping and some grocery shopping. I love our outings, even if we are buying fish and almond milk. 😊

                Here’s to a new week! (And if you’re in the super hot part of the country this week, please, oh please, be safe!

Saturday, June 21, 2025

Saturday Suggestions: Inspirations for Your Weekend

 


Good morning, friends! I feel like I should officially welcome you to summer, which arrived since the last round of Saturday suggestions. We’ve had a full week over here – at work and at home. I’ll tell you more about that tomorrow, but in the meantime, I have a pretty diverse collection of things for you today. Hope you enjoy!

Ryan and I contemplated buying a coffee shop a couple of times in our marriage. It will probably remain one of the forever secret wishes of my life that is unlikely to ever become a reality.  (And that’s okay!) But according to this post, I could come awfully close to experiencing coffee shop life by making the most of my very own coffee bar and inviting some friends over to taste test! I think I could handle that.  (BONUS: I also found this link to Rachael’s take on the home café. She even made her own logo!)

Twenty-ish years ago, in a very different time (and hair era) of my life, a group of ladies from our church took an overnight road trip to go to a massive rummage sale at a church. I looked up the adventure in my scrapbook a couple of weeks ago, because I was trying to tell Ryan about it and couldn’t remember exactly where we went. Turns out…it was Chicago! I asked the organizer of that group if she remembered the name of the church, and she did not, but a little internet hunting told me not only the name of the church, but that the sale goes on! I told Ryan that we should make a point to go sometime – just to experience the vastness of the sale. It is something to behold!

I stumbled upon this darling YouTube video this week and just delighted in it to no end. I enjoy watching decorating videos, but they’re all so very similar and typical. This one was like decorating disguised as a real show. And she’s an Anne Shirley doppelganger, which made it all the better. Now I want to watch her entire channel. Note: Apparently the video I linked is the first one she’s done in this style, but according to the comments, people loved it, so I hope she does more. (BONUS: As she’s decorating her living room, she pulls out this lamp, which is attached to a fake book and slides right into a bookshelf. I’m sorry you missed my jaw dropping STRAIGHT to the floor as I promptly added this to my wish list…)

I hear we are headed into a heat wave soon, which is just wild since it’s been basically fall/winter all spring. Ryan and I are thankful to have updated HVAC, after two years of limping along on a mostly broken system, and we added a tiny window unit to our bedroom to help the one room that seems to struggle staying cool. But if you live in a house that doesn’t have central air, or it just can’t keep up, check out this hack that helps trap cool air in a smaller space to make the hot days bearable.

Remember when blogs all used to be just random stories from people’s lives? They weren’t all about influencing and curation. They were just stories. Well, Kari Anne Wood pulled a story from the archives this week that is just pure GOLD. If you haven’t already, read it!

You know how much I love pictures, and unless God rewires something in my brain, this will always be part of who I am. I don’t apologize for it, and it’s actually something I really love about who I am. (For a person who is typically apologetic about everything, that’s kind of huge!) This article about the programs that changed society through photography/videography was really fascinating to me. I had never before associated some of these with a whole shift in the world!

Friday, June 20, 2025

Cupbearers

 


I started Darlene Schacht’s new Bible study Nehemiah and the Holy Spirit’s Work of Restoration this week. I’m excited for this study because I’ve never crawled slowly through the book of Nehemiah before, so I have much to learn.

                I’m already learning, actually, and I want to share with you today one of the things that stood out to me in the first lesson.

                I’ve read the book of Nehemiah before, because I’ve read the whole Bible through more than once. But I haven’t paid close attention like I’m doing now.

                At the end of chapter one, just after Nehemiah shares a beautiful, guttural prayer for God to hear and receive his prayer, and just before he goes before the king to ask permission to go work on the destroyed wall of Jerusalem, he says this one little sentence: “Now I was cupbearer to the king.”

                It’s such an odd sentence, sitting there all by itself.

                As I studied, though, I began to understand that Nehemiah’s position as cupbearer to the king gave him a place of trust with the king that he would need to get permission to go work on the wall.

                I also realized that as cupbearer to the king, he was unlikely to own a bunch of power tools or the skills to do the sort of work he walked straight into.

                Yet…

                …he had the burden and the heart for the project and didn’t let his perceived lack hold him back.

                And…

                …he recognized the gift he had as cupbearer to the king and allowed God to work through him to do a greater work.

                We’re all cupbearers to the king in some way. I believe that each of us, at some point in life, has the chance to do something for the Lord that we wouldn’t be able to do if we weren’t positioned in some particular way. It might be a job or a relationship. It might be a skill or an experience. Something we have or have done or know of lived through makes us cupbearers, ready for something God prepared for us.

                He wastes nothing, you know.

                And just because we aren’t experts doesn’t mean we can’t be used of God to do a thing.

                I don’t know what this might look like in your life, but I encourage you to look for it. What is your cupbearer moment!?

Thursday, June 19, 2025

Diligent in the Details

 


I really thought I had written about this, but I can’t find it, so I’m writing about it today! Just passing along a little life lesson that came to me a few weeks ago.

                Ryan and I had to update our heating and air system here at the house, and the day the company came to do the work, I was out of town. Ryan was home to oversee the project, and I arrived back home about an hour before the guys wrapped up their work and left.

                I sat at my desk in the kitchen and scratched Lexi’s ears while one of the young apprentices tweaked the connections on the thermostat and told me they would be cleaning up to leave soon. It was already evening on a Friday, and I was pretty sure we were all ready to get to our weekend.

                The gentleman disappeared and returned a few moments later. He started unhooking the thermostat. “Looks like one of the wires is too short. We’re going to be here a long time.”

                I tried not to grimace out loud, so to speak. A few minutes later, the lead guy on the project walked in and started looking over the wires on the thermostat. He called over the apprentice and showed him that the wire wasn’t too short. It was just kinked and unable to reach as far as it should.

                With a kind tone, he said to the apprentice, “Straighten that out and we should be good. You have to stay diligent in the details.”

                “Yes, Sir,” the young man said, and he fixed the problem in a few minutes.

                I know nothing about HVAC, but that line took root in my mind. “You have to stay diligent in the details.”

                No matter what I’m doing, no matter how hard, easy, fast, slow, significant or insignificant the detail in front of me seems, I must remain diligent. Every little bit matters, and every connection must be completed.

                Diligent in the details. I want that to be my story.

Wednesday, June 18, 2025

Kitchen Refresh

 


Last week was all about creativity for me. I wrote a ton of resources for work, I did some fun personal writing, and I even did a little decorating in the house! My creativity cup was full-to-overflowing by the end of the week, and I think it showed in my countenance. 😊

                The home decorating was inspired by a combination of YouTube videos playing in the background while I did other work and some Pinterest suggestions. I wanted to work on the kitchen using (mostly) only the things I already owned.

                Our kitchen is small, which is typically okay with us. Every now and then, during a big cooking extravaganza, that gets annoying, but for the most part, it’s fine. However, I hold firmly to the belief that it is only fine because we are careful to keep it clean and organized. Now that we have lived here just over two years, I’ve learned pretty well what items are used often and which ones could be stored in farther reaches (or even other rooms) because they don’t get as much playing time.

                I started with the kitchen island. When this first moved into our house about a year ago, I didn’t store anything on it at all. Eventually I decided it looked lonely, and I thought it needed a little décor. I used this small pie plate that was Mom’s and added some candles and faux flowers. It’s worked really well for several months, but I needed something different for some new scenery.

                So I borrowed this larger metal tray, which was a gift to me from Ryan’s mom, years ago. It’s been living in the dining room area, but I brought it in here, and I also brought in this pineapple plant we’ve had for a few years. It wasn’t thriving in the room where it had been living (not enough light) so I cut off the dead leaves, added some fresh soil, and we’ll see how it does in this space!

I also read in this post that it’s great to have a snack station in the house. Time will tell if that’s a good idea or dangerous. 😊 I grabbed a couple of glass jars from the cabinet. Both happened to be empty at the moment, so I put my animal crackers in one and Ryan’s pretzels in the other. I also have this little Ball jar that my friend Amber left for us years ago (filled with scotcharoos) to welcome us home from a vacation. It holds small chocolates now, and I thought those three comprised a good snack station.


I do use this island often for cooking and church work, so the tray can easily be moved when I need to do a project.

This little counter space has always been a struggle for me. It’s so small that nothing fits there as beautifully as I’d like. For the last year or so, I’ve stored these wheat jars there, with the bread box in front of them. It’s been okay, but I didn’t love it.

Now it looks like this! The coffee sign came from the other side of the kitchen. I added the alarm clock from another room, not because we need an alarm clock in the kitchen, but I thought it paired well with the sign. Then I gathered up all the short-and-hard-to-find utensils from the utensil caddy and various drawers and put them all right here in a jar from the cabinet. I already use these things more simply because I can find them. I love this change.



The other side of the kitchen saw some change as well. 

I went through the utensil caddy and pulled out all the things we don’t use all the time. I don’t think I got rid of any of them, but I did relocate some to a utensil drawer. The caddy looks cleaner now. (While I was at the drawer, I pulled everything out of it, cleaned it, and pulled out things we haven’t used in years. Time to donate!)


The cutting boards stayed put. I would love to be a kitchen with many cutting boards, but I just don’t have the room. I’d be open to adding a couple more, if I find good ones at a thrift store or sale sometime. I also kept the wooden utensil pitcher – and added the rolling pin to it. (It’s under the cake plate in the "before" photo.) I also added another little jar for short wooden utensils that get lost in the pitcher.

I moved the wooden house sign to another room, kept the lamp, and moved the oil jar up to the cake plate. I brought a small pitcher out of storage and filled it with rolled cloth napkins that used to be Mom and Dad's. I'm trying to use cloth napkins more often! 

Ryan often moves the salt and pepper shakers to the dining room table when we eat, so I just moved them over there to live permanently. This meant I did need to purchase one thing, which has actually been on my wish list for a while: salt and pepper grinders. I just think they feel so fancy. I found a set at Walmart for about $15, and I had a gift card, so I treated myself! I also moved the wheat jars to this side of the counter. The new look makes me happy!


The bread machine takes up most of this side of the counter, and the knife block needs to stay here. The chocolate jar is on the island now, and I moved the little sign to another room. 

And in this corner, I added the little blue pie plate that had been on the island, with a vase from the cabinet. I added some landscaping stones and faux flowers. (More on the flowers in a moment.) I also added this little dinner bell. It had been part of my bell collection when I was a child, and when I recently sorted through that collection to donate most of it, I kept a few extra special bells. This was one of them.



I thought I would change things over here, but I didn’t. It all ended up working just like it was. My produce baskets (clearly it’s time to go to the store) and my secondhand mixing bowls and my beloved perpetual calendar and chalkboard.

I didn’t take a before picture of this space, because I didn’t expect to do anything to it, but I did move around some things on the desk space. I put a few of the actual desk items in my home office, because I now have room for them in there. (Things that were on the home office desk were taken to the church office.) This beautiful little greenhouse Ryan bought me has been in my home office, but the plants died…not enough light in there. We have not had ONE PLANT make it in that room. So I brought it out here, bought two new herb plants, and set them up in this window, which gets tons of light. I’m excited!!

I said I’d come back to the flowers…

A few weeks ago, I went to a baby shower at church, and the host had used little daisies in glass jars, and I just loved them. After all, daisies are the friendliest flower, right? I wanted to get some to decorate around the house for summer, and I planned to put those on my Walmart gift card too, but alas, they had zero daisies. I’ll have to make a stop at Hobby Lobby sometime to see if they have some. When I get them, I’ll put some in that little vase by the bread machine. I will probably also use that vase some for real flowers from the flower patch this summer.

I loved my little kitchen refresh, and the only things I purchased were the salt and pepper grinders and the new herb plants. Everything else was shopped from the house!

Tuesday, June 17, 2025

Travel Tub Inspiration


 

                A few years ago, I wrote about our mobile medicine bag, which is a little lunchbox filled with our over-the-counter medicine. Mucinex, cough drops, ibuprofen, cold sore meds, indigestion meds – they all live in there. When we go away from home, even for a few hours, it’s easy to grab the bag and toss it in the back seat so we’re prepared if we start to feel sick.

                Earlier this year, I shared about my mobile office, which I created when I didn’t yet have a real office at the church. Even though I do have my beautiful office now, I still keep the mobile office, because I really do work on the go quite often. (home, coffee shops, hospitals, etc.). It really is so handy to have my Bible and office supplies at the ready no matter where I am.

                My next mobile project is still a thought in my head, but I thought I’d include you on the planning phase this time!

                If you’ve been reading here for a while, you know that for a few years, Ryan and I owned a camper we named Abby. We loved her and only sold her because we moved to the lake, and at this juncture of our lives, we desire to be home on the weekends so we can enjoy the lake. (Also, I need to be home for work on Sundays.) Someday, probably in retirement, we hope to get a different camper and travel more. My favorite thing about camping was having my home at my fingertips. Anything we needed from any room was right there in the camper.

                When we travel for vacations now, we have to do a lot of packing, because the car doesn’t stay packed in travel mode all the time. The one area that always seems to be missing something important is the kitchen part of our travel lives. We do eat out when we travel, but we are also known to take snacks and easy-prep foods with us for some meals just to try to keep costs down. And that means we need to have a few kitchen supplies on hand…and I usually forget something.

                I told Ryan after this last trip that my plan this summer is to take a small storage tub from the garage (we have a few spare ones out there) and fill it with kitchen supplies so it’s always packed and ready for our trip. Here is my brainstorming list for the tub so far, inspired by the need to be very mobile and the reality that washing a bunch of dishes isn’t always realistic on the road.

·         Large and small disposable plates

·         Disposable bowls

·         Disposable silverware

·         Knives with covers (We have these from the camper, and I do take them…but they could just live in the tub to make it easier for me to remember them when it’s time to pack. They are helpful for cutting fruit or other foods)

·         Roll of paper towel

·         Ceramic coffee mugs (drinking our coffee from a real mug is our preference)

·         Food storage bags in varying sizes (for leftovers and ice packs in between hotels)

That’s my working list so far. What would you add?

Monday, June 16, 2025

Father's Day

 


Yesterday was Father’s Day, and I know for many, it’s a complicated day. The longer I blog, the harder it seems to address days like Mother’s Day and Father’s Day in ways that honor parents and respect those who find such days hard to endure. For those waiting to be parents, those who have lost parents, and those who have hard relationships with their parents, I know it’s a difficult day.

                For those of you who might be newer here, you might not know that Ryan’s stepdad, who had been in his life since he was very little, passed away in 2021. Two years before that, Ryan’s mom died. Father’s Day was always a big family gathering day at the cabin, with Ryan’s mom and stepdad hosting 50ish people…so the day is very different now, in their absence.

                Ryan and I did get to talk with both our dads yesterday – Ryan over the phone, and me in person. Mom and Dad came to church and then we went to Swiss Village to have lunch with them.

                Dad enjoyed his gift (McDonald’s gift cards) and indulged us with obligatory photos.



                Ryan took the photo above and then “zoomed” in – by putting the phone right in my face – and it startled me!

                We didn’t want Mom to feel left out.

                After lunch, we came home to get some rest before a busy week, and Lexi spent time with Ryan – because she’s his girl through and through.

                We went on a walk around the lake, and when evening came, we sat out on the patio for a while, enjoying the sunset and a perfect weather night. (Truly perfect breeze and so quiet out there.)


                It was a sweet day, and it felt perfect!