Thursday, December 28, 2023

Christmas 2023

 


Well, friends, I’ve sorted through my Christmas pictures and thought I’d share with you some of the fun of our day!

            Christmas Day was quite springlike around here. We had a beautiful morning here on the lake, and then Ryan and I enjoyed our Christmas together at home!


            We read Luke 2 (to Lexi) and exchanged our stockings.

            Lexi went first with the stocking and was so excited to find treats!




            I gave Ryan his stocking, which included a lot of candy and some socks – and an art kit! What!? He made a comment in passing not long ago that he always wished he knew how to paint, and now that we live on the lake, he feels like he should have this skill. So I got him an art kit! Can’t wait to see what he creates!





            My stocking had some fun things in it as well!



But the best part came at the very end when he sent me on a scavenger hunt that ended with this gorgeous little kitchen herb greenhouse!! I found it at IKEA on our anniversary trip and managed not to impulse-buy it. And then I regretted it. Ryan secretly ordered it and surprised me with it!




            After we had our Christmas, we went for a walk, since it was so gorgeous out, and then it was time to head to the family Christmas gatherings!


            My family was first! My sister and brother-in-law were there, along with my parents, of course. We opened gifts and got some really fun stuff!











            We went to see Ryan’s grandpa, and he was having a really good day! So good to see him.

            We ended the day with another family Christmas on Ryan’s side, and then it was time to head home (via coffee).



            It was a long day, but we were thankful for its goodness!

Wednesday, December 27, 2023

Capsules

 


If you’ve been reading here for several years, you might remember that not long after I left WBCL, I started a capsule wardrobe project. Back in those days, I had way too many clothes. I’d been the grateful recipient of several hand-me-downs from generous friends, and while I appreciated them, I also knew I had more than I needed or could wear regularly.

            So I did my best to create a capsule with my somewhat limited understanding about it – and sometimes it went better than others. Eventually I gave up on it, frustrated that I still didn’t fully grasp how to make the pieces work together seamlessly. I’ve done a lot more research over the last year, especially, and I’ve decided to try to follow a capsule again!

            This was partially inspired by my work wardrobe. In the work I do for LifeWise, I have a rotation of branded shirts I wear so that when I have meetings (whether virtual or in-person) I am representing the company well. Returning to such a small wardrobe for work purposes has inspired me to want to be intentional in my non-work wardrobe as well. Plus, Ryan and I have more limited space now than we’ve ever had for clothing storage, so I want to make sure I’m utilizing that space well.

            Over the last couple of days, I’ve combed carefully through my closet and have pulled out what I hope will become pieces that mix and match well. I am hoping to have to purchase very little – and if I do have to get something, I’m really hoping I can find it a thrift store!

            I’ve been using this post from the Clothed in Grace blog as my inspiration – though I’m planning to incorporate more blue than she uses here. I’m so excited about the ensembles I’ve tried so far and am excited to see what more I can put together using what I have.

            It may be a silly thing…but when I feel like I’ve been a little creative with my clothes, it makes me feel better overall.

            It’ll be a fun project for the new year! Work clothing capsule during the day and blue clothing capsule off the clock!

Tuesday, December 26, 2023

Bekah's Bookshelf...My 2023 Reads so Far!

 


We got home from our Christmas celebrations late last night, and I have not had time to think or transfer pictures or anything else. So, rest assured I have not forgotten Christmas, but I just need another day or two to sort through the pictures!

            MEANWHILE…

            It’s been about a year since I happened upon a reading challenge – through Pinterest, I’m sure. The spirit of the challenge was to read a book a week and I knew going into the year that accomplishing that was highly unlikely. I was right. I know some of you can read a bunch of books every week, and I am in awe of you! I’m not that accomplished. (And it’s okay!)

            I ended up finishing 21 books this year, and I have four more that I’m partway through, but I don’t know that I will get any of them completed before 2023 slides into 2024. Today I want to look over what I’ve read and some of my favorites:

Like a Winter Snow  by Lindsay Harrel was my first read of the year. It fulfilled the category of A Winter Read – and I read it on my Kindle. It was a sweet, fun, easy book, and a great way to jumpstart reading again.

Friends, Lovers, and the Big Terrible Thing by Matthew Perry fulfilled the category of A Book Everyone is Talking About. Of course, when I read that in January, I had no idea that within a year’s time, Matthew would die. It was an eye-opening look into the world of hard-core addiction. I learned much from his perspective, and my heart is sad that he ended up dying so young.

Redemptive Compassion by Lois Tupyi was not a challenge-related book, but it was one I read when Ryan still worked at Love INC. The author spent years working at a Love INC affiliate out west and the organization relied heavily on her Redemptive Compassion teaching. Ryan and I both read it to try to make critical changes, but we learned from it that if you are trying to accomplish her teachings on your own, you probably won’t be able to make much change. It was true in our area!

Devotedly  by Valerie Elliot Shepard was my Award-winning Nonfiction read for the challenge. It’s not a new book, but I hadn’t owned it to read it until last Christmas. (It’s worth owning.) The book chronicles the love letters and stories of Valerie’s parents – Jim and Elisabeth Elliot. I adored reading their love story, as I really appreciate who both of them were as people and ambassadors for Christ!

On Writing by Stephen King fulfilled the category of Famous Author You’ve Avoided. I am just not a fan of Stephen King’s style (personal preference) but a friend had gifted me this writing memoir of his. Though I owned it for probably close to 20 years, I’d never read it. This pushed me to finally read it, and I did enjoy it. I don’t know that I would like his fiction, but I enjoyed this.

Smart Brevity by Jim Vanderhei, Mike Allen, and Roy Schwartz was a book I read for my last job. I had taken some online training classes and a fellow classmate recommended this, so I read it. It falls in one of the top books I read all year. It’s short and easy to read, and it has great advice on communicating succinctly. My workplace paid for the book and asked for it back when I left (totally fair!) but I loved it enough that I will probably end up purchasing it to have in my own library.

Becoming Free Indeed by Jinger Duggar Vuolo was my pick for 2023 New Release. I had been looking forward to reading it and was not disappointed. I know many people didn’t love it that Jinger kept this book more about her faith and less about the details of her family, but I knew that going into my read, so I wasn’t upset about it. I have friends who have wrestled with faith and this is one I now recommend as a great resource.

Nature’s Storyteller by Barbara Olenyick Morrow was my pick for Book Borrowed from a Friend. One of Ryan’s coworkers loaned it to me. It’s the biography of Gene Stratton Porter, an author from our area who was quite famous in her day. The book is actually geared for a teen audience, so it was extra fun to read!

The Magnificent Obsession by Anne Graham Lotz filled the book At the Bottom of Your To-Read Pile. I’ve owned it for years – bought it on a clearance rack – but never got around to reading it. It wasn’t my favorite book Anne’s written, but I did like it and am glad I read it.

Love Comes Softly by Janette Oke filled the reread a Favorite category. I will always love Janette and this series and this book. It was one of my favorites from the year and I will read it again and again!

During School Hours by Joel Penton filled the Book with a Red Cover catgetory – and simultaneously allowed me to learn more about LifeWise when I started working there! If LifeWise is unfamiliar to you, this book does a great job of sharing the history of the organization and explaining what we do!

A Homemade Life  by Molly Wizenberg wasn’t part of the book challenge, but it was easily one of my favorites from the year. It was a memoir with a food theme – and I really loved Molly’s writing style. It inspired me in my own writing. I had read about it on a blog and it caught my attention, so I got it and read it!

Between Heaven and the Real World by Steven Curtis Chapman fille the category of A Book You Own but Haven’t Read. Oh, how I loved it. I cried over it. I love Steven’s music, and getting to read more about his life and how God has opened doors for him musically was beautiful. It also gave me a chance to read about his daughter, Maria’s, life and death from his perspective. A few years ago, I read about that from his wife’s point of view. This is a beautiful read.

The Unfinished Sonata by K.D. McCrite was a fun, easy read Ryan brought home to me from the free table at work. It was like a Hallmark movie in a book, and I got through it so fast! It was cute and predictable, and a good break from life. It was just a fun extra read, and I passed it on when I was done!

Just Open the Door  by Jen Schmidt was also not a book challenge read, but it was a really wonderful guide to hospitality. I had read a recommendation for it on a blog and am so glad I read it. I learned a lot about how hospitality fits into our life and ministry!

The Undoing of Saint Silvanus  by Beth Moore filled the category of a Fiction/Nonfiction pairing, though as of yet, I have not read the nonfiction half of this challenge. This is Beth’s first (and as of yet, only) fiction book, and I loved her as a fiction writer every bit as much as a nonfiction writer. I would highly recommend this book. The story and the craft are both well-done.

Mission Drift  by Peter Greer and Chris Horst was a book I read for work – along with my team. It’s a good book if you work in ministry or own any kind of business. It helps you understand the importance of sticking to the mission you set out to accomplish.

Driftwood Bay by Irene Hannon filled the category of An Author You Love. I have read many of her books, but this Hope Harbor series is my favorite. I owned the first four but got behind…and this was the fifth book in the series. Loved it as much as the rest of them!

The Nature of Small Birds  by Susie Finkbeiner filled the category of An Animal on the Cover. This novel followed the story of a family who had adopted a child from Vietnam during the war. The chapters rotated storytellers and time periods, which was new for me! I loved the writing style of this book and would read more by Susie!

I know this isn’t a list of 21 books. I read 2 others (on grant writing) for work that I didn’t review on the blog, because I figured they wouldn’t apply to any of you! I also attempted to read Prairie Fires to fill the category of A book over 500 pages. The book was much more academic than I was expecting, and I just didn’t have time (in December) to finish it. It’s about Laura Ingalls Wilder’s life and how it was so much harder than she portrayed in her writing. There was a TON of work and research that went into the writing of this book, but I was anticipating something that flowed a little easier, so I will either call it a loss or come back to it in some other season of life when I have more time!

Some books I had particularly hoped to read for the challenge this year, but didn’t get to include:

Undoing What Has You Undone by Beth Moore – the other half of the Fiction/nonfiction Pairing

The Sweetness at the Bottom of the Pie by Alan Bradley – recommended by a librarian. Fun fact: I went to college with one of the librarians here in town, so I love talking books with her!

A Wrinkle in Time by Madeleine L’engle – Newbery Award Winner. Love her writing, but I have never read this one!

I am not sure what I want to strive to do for reading in the year to come. I have a handful of fiction series I’d love to read. Mayb that should be my theme!

How about you!? Reading dreams?

Monday, December 25, 2023

Merry Christmas!

 


Merry Christmas, my friends! Whether your day is packed or laid back, I hope you have an enjoyable time and a chance to savor some goodness.

            Thought I would share with you today some peeks at our Christmas Eve.

            We had church, which was actually full, but we took our picture there early before everyone filled the pews.

            Ryan sang with the choir, I filled in for the nursery workers long enough for them to watch their own kiddos sing in church, and our pastoral staff read the Scripture during the service.



            After church we came home and rested, took a walk (since it was springlike here) and I made dessert for one of our gatherings today.




            Lexi got her new car seat Christmas gift and went out with Ryan for a test run. (He said she did a great job with it!)

          After dinner, we watched The Best Christmas Pageant Ever, which is (ironically) one of my favorite Christmas books, but I'd never seen the movie! Mom used to read me that book all the time when I was a kid, and then I read it to Ryan after we got married. The movie did NOT disappoint!

  

Late last night, we made our way back to church for the Christmas Eve service, which was beautiful!



            I like it when Christmas Eve falls on Sunday, because it feels like the perfect preparation for Christmas Day.

            Merry Christmas from us!

Sunday, December 24, 2023

Sunday Sentiments

 


We’re finally ready.

            Christmas can come.

            We drove around to see the lights, we mailed the cards, the stockings are stuffed, We’ve kept the music on repeat, the gifts are wrapped, we’ve watched the main movies, I’ve worn the jammies, and we gave up on cookies and gingerbread houses.

            We’ve enjoyed the trees and lights in our own home immensely – possibly more than I remember doing in the last several years combined. What a treasure they’ve been in this mostly-gray December!

            It’s been a different kind of December in some ways, and it’s been completely traditional in others. My heart has welcomed both.

            I’ve wrestled with the hard things, but then again, Christmas is about Jesus’ birth, and He came to this earth because of the hard things – like our sin and our need for a Savior. So wrestling with the hard things merely reminds me of my utter need for and dependence on Him. I welcome that, too, even if the hard things are still hard.

            Seems like I’ve been reading a lot of posts written by those having a tough Christmas. For some, it’s tough for reasons of their own making and choosing. For others, they never saw the tough coming until it smacked them in the face. And for others yet, it’s ongoing toughness that has made all of life weary. If you’re in any of those camps, I am praying that God will send you a special reminder today of His deep love for you. (He knows who you are and can match my prayer to you.) There have been times in my own seasons of hard that I’ve cried out for God to just remind me that He’s there – and I ask that for you today.

            Seems like I’ve read other posts by those truly enjoying the season – but feeling guilty about it, because so many are hurting. If this December is joy-filled for you, embrace it to the fullest. The hard years pop in without warning, so when the year brings delight, don’t feel bad about delighting in it. Celebrate the gift even as you celebrate the GIFT.

            Merry Christmas Eve, my friends. Much love to you.

Saturday, December 23, 2023

Saturday Suggestions

 


ONE. 

I really love to decorate every room in our home for Christmas. This year I did not decorate our guest room/office at all because we were transitioning it with the makeover, and it seemed silly to work around decorations. But next year I plan to add a tree in there for sure! Our two bathrooms did have some little sprinkles of décor, but I was honestly unsure how to add to it. Neither one is very big, nor are there many places to situate things. This post gave me some great ideas for things to look for during after-Christmas sales!

TWO. 

Whether you’re hosting a New Year’s Eve party next weekend or enjoying a night at home, this new year bucket list could be a fun thing to complete. It’s a great dream-prompter, and you know how I love prompting a good dream!

THREE. 

A few weeks ago, I shared a post of a little 400 square foot home that a blogger added onto her house for her parents to live in. The house was empty in that tour, but it was SO cute. They’ve moved in now, and she shared an updated post. Still cute as a button!!!

FOUR. 


I needed these words this week. Change is so hard – and I needed some perspective. Maybe you do too?

FIVE. 

Here’s a festive twist on the chocolate chip cookie. If you’re taking dessert to a party this weekend, this is a perfect way to make it Christmassy I a hurry!

SIX.

This week’s most popular house on realtor.com is a cool million – and it looks straight out of a movie! It’s got water and mountains and beauty…There you go! When you buy it, invite us over! 😊

Friday, December 22, 2023

Stillness

 


The week has been a busy one. Ryan has had extra hours at work, we’ve had much to accomplish at home, and the days (while not bad) have been busy. Last night we came home with a list to do – and did none of it.

            Instead, we made dinner and sat by the Christmas tree. We ate and talked and listened to music playing in the background. (And Lexi asking for us to share…but that wasn’t quite as melodic.)

            Then we sat in the living room, watched a Christmas movie, and enjoyed the lights of the trees.

            It may not have been an utterly silent night, but the stillness was so sweet. I’m so glad we made the choice to slow down for a night and let ourselves rest before pushing ahead into Christmas week.

            If your presents aren’t all wrapped, don’t worry. Mine aren’t either. If you haven’t baked yet – neither have I. But it’s okay to sit in the beauty of the soft lights and enjoy them. It’s okay to rest.

            It’s okay to savor the stillness.

            In fact, make time for it.

            It’s so worth it.