Friday, February 13, 2026

Friday Fun: Valentine's Day Memories

 


                I confess this week hasn’t been the most fun we’ve had in our lives. My dad is still very sick, and we’ve had many plot twists throughout the week. It’s hard to put together a fun Friday post when life feels the opposite of fun.

                But I do love Valentine’s Day, so in honor of it tomorrow, I thought I’d look back over our Valentine celebrations from years gone by. I thought I’d choose one of my favorite things from each of them!

ONE. My favorite thing about our first Valentine’s Day was the at-home celebration we put together. Ryan cooked the entire meal, and it made my first ever Valentine’s-Day-in-a-relationship a true joy. He sent me roses at work, we had dinner in our dining room – by candlelight – and it was so perfect.


TWO. This year included a visit to DeBrand, where we shared a chocolate float. It was so delicious. DeBrand is always a good idea on Valentine’s Day!

THREE. Another at-home date year that featured a fondue dinner. Fondue is such fun food. We didn’t yet own our own fondue set, so I borrowed one, and we had a great time cooking our dinner in the fondue pots!


FOUR. Ryan arranged a cooking class date for us, and it remains one of my favorite dates we’ve done. We cooked fancy food and then ate it together. (I would love to do this again sometime. It was a blast!)


FIVE. We had dinner out at Ruby Tuesday (best salad bar ever…I sure miss it!) and then we went to a yogurt place for dessert. We found out when we arrived that if you would kiss at the register, you could buy one yogurt, get one free. NO PROBLEM!

SIX. We went out to Red Robin and (on a whim) decided to stop by the Cake Bake Shop for dessert. It was our first time to ever go, and we had no idea how fortunate we were to get a table without a reservation. I’m pretty sure that would no longer be an option! We loved our cake!

SEVEN. This was the year that we were caring for Ryan’s mom during her illness, so we were on a caretaking shift on Valentine’s Day. We went out for our own date a few days later. We had a gift card to a Mexican restaurant, so we went there for dinner, but we also had fun furniture shopping at Bob’s! (We have subsequently bought several things there, but that night was just a fun looking night.)

EIGHT. Ryan planned a really fun overnight getaway for us this year! I was working at the church in Kokomo, and he picked me up after work and surprised me with a trip to one of our favorite Airbnbs we’ve ever stayed at. It was on the canal in Indianapolis and had a great view of the skyline. There was a burger restaurant IN the building – and a coffee shop, too. I loved this extra special date so much.

NINE. We were at WillowBridge for this Valentine’s Day, everything was still wonky from the pandemic, and we decided to stay in and enjoy a proper at-home date again. Ryan grilled, we had fondue for dessert, and it was the sweetest day.

TEN. We had a new family member for this Valentine’s Day, and she got all in the mix! We were in the throes of ALL the puppy training, so we stayed in and had Chinese takeout – and photo shoots with the best dressed Valentine’s girl in the house!

ELEVEN. We were about a week away from moving to the lake on this Valentine’s Day, so the day was filled with cooking at home, patching holes in the walls of the house we were selling, and falling asleep to a movie with Lexi between us. And yet – just being together was a gift. We appreciated it.

TWELVE. We were contestants in the Newlywed game at Swiss Village, and we won! That was a lot of fun. This was right before my parents moved there, so they didn’t get to see the fun. That night we grilled out and ate at home!

THIRTEEN. And last year we were back at Swiss Village to watch my parents receive a certificate for 70 years of marriage. It was a sweet memory. After work we went out to Fulton + Main (a restaurant in Berne) for dinner!

And this weekend we’ll celebrate ou4 14th Valentine’s Day together. He’s still my very favorite person and I am excited to make another year of memories in our dates!

I love you, Ryan! Happy Valentine’s Day…a day early!

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