Thursday, January 01, 2026

Thankful Thursday: Stories to Come

 


                2026 marks twenty years since I wrote my first blog post and hit publish in this space. I’ve been a blogger longer than I’ve been just about anything else, and my twenty-seven-year-old self never could have imagined the stories I would share in this arena.

                I never aspired to have a blog. Back in those days, I was still a Financial Aid Counselor, and one of my coworkers set up the page, handed me the login and password, and told me to get to work. I didn’t really know what that looked like, so I started by telling stories about my kitten, Braeya, sharing my strong opinions on American Idol competitions, and pondering the lessons God taught me along the way. I didn’t have a plan or a niche. I just told stories.


Some of you have been here from the beginning, and you remember the stories that came – after the American Idol finale – when I had to think up new material.

You remember the updates on life for my sister after the Greensburg tornado wiped out her home and town.

You remember when I hit my first big age milestone as a blogger – turning thirty!

You were here when I took my first grown-up vacation – to Hershey – and you were here when I went back (years later) with Ryan by my side.


You remember my slow crawl through the desert of the soul after my loss of love, and some of you were so worried that I might never recover. I worried, too. You celebrated when I began to heal and live again. I celebrated, too.

You also celebrated when I gave birth to my very first book, which just marked its fifteenth birthday.

You were as surprised as I was when the Lord opened the door for me to work in radio, and you came along for parades, concerts, on-air bloopers, and lessons of the soul.





You had just started to learn about a new man in my life and didn’t even know yet that he was my boyfriend when he surprised us all by proposing! You ran beside me as we hurried to plan a wedding and married on a beach at sunset.



You remember when I left radio and stayed at home for a few years, writing another book, podcasting, and learning to speak at events.


You were here for Nita’s unexpected illness and death – and Allen’s shocking heart attack and death two years later.


You read as we packed, moved and renovated homes more than once, and for the years we dipped our toes in ministry at WillowBridge.




You remember Braeya’s entire (long – for a cat!) life and mourned with us when she passed away a little over a year ago.

You giggled when we brought home a tiny puppy and tried our hand at potty training, leash training, sit training, and all the other trainings that come with a puppy. You’ve watched her little personality emerge over the last four years.



You remember my parents’ move to our area, my entrance into ministry, and life in a tiny cottage on the edge of an equally tiny lake.



                I never could have imagined those stories back in 2006. Me? Married? With a dog? Living on a lake? Working in ministry? The author of two books? No. But God…

                I couldn’t have dreamed the stories to come over the last twenty years, but they came – and hundreds more alongside them – and I told them in ways I hoped would honor, teach, and entertain.

                And now it is the first day of 2026, and I have no idea what stories will come in this year either. Like each year of life, some are bound to be hard, and others will be good. I am confident that because Ryan stands beside me, there will be oodles of laughter and because I’m involved, there will be some tears.

                We have dreams. We have hopes. We have goals. And we drop them in the trustworthy hand of our Jesus, asking Him to guide, protect, help, sustain, and teach. And if the last twenty years of life have taught us anything, it’s that we know He can be trusted to do all those things.

                I may not have risen to “blog fame” in the last twenty years, but that is okay. I’m not an influencer, I’m not rich, I’m not a household name, and I still don’t have a niche and a plan, but I’m grateful to live in a day when I can have a little corner of the web to tell the stories that have come and the stories yet to come. Thank you, friends, for being here to read along for yet another year. I am thankful for you, and I welcome you to our home in this space. Let’s see what stories are yet to come this year!

5 comments:

Anonymous said...

Happy 20 years! Been friends almost 13 of those years’
Odie

Tamar SB said...

What an accomplishment!!!!!

Shari said...

Still your number ONE Fan!! :)

Bekah said...

Odie - Our friendship is a teenager!! I love that.

Tamar - Thank you! )

Shari - We HAVE to get together with you two this year. HAVE TO. We miss you!!!

Anonymous said...

Thank you for continuing to post and provide insights. Blogging is way too far underrated. More people should do it but it does take time.