Back in
2016, in the fall, just a few months after we sold our Marion house, my dear
Julie Crandall handed me a gift. There wasn’t an occasion at hand, so I was
surprised to be a gift recipient, but I do love a good gift, so I was excited!
Inside? A watercolor painting of our first home. She had pulled the photos from
the listing, shared them with a friend of hers, and commissioned this painting
of our Marion home.
I wrote
here about all
the (beautiful!) emotions that stirred in me. Ryan and I loved the painting so
much that we asked for the contact information of the artist and commissioned a
painting of our Kokomo house to hang alongside it.
Then
you know what happened, right? We moved to WillowBridge…and Bluffton…and then
to the lake. And before we knew it, we were really behind on watercolors for
our wall of homes.
Two
years ago, in the fall, after we had moved to the lake, I reached out to my
friend Amber, who I’ve talked about many times on this blog. She’s a phenomenal
artist, and I wanted to support her endeavors, so I asked if she would paint
the remainder of our homes. She has a full time job and busy life aside from
her art, so I told her we weren’t in a hurry. For the waiting season, as I
wrote about here,
I purchased an inexpensive app and created “watercolors” from photos of our
other homes so the frames wouldn’t be empty on the wall. But the app pictures
are not the same as a handcrafted painting.
A
couple of weeks ago, when we were in Kokomo for Ryan’s grandpa’s funeral, Amber
came to the visitation. On her way out, she pulled me aside and said, “I have
your paintings…do you want them?” We hurried out to the parking lot and
transferred them from her car to ours, and I wanted to cry on the spot over the
beauty of her work!
She
hasn’t done the lake house yet, per our request, because we were waiting for it
to look more like our transformed vision before she painted it. But she did
WillowBridge and our Bluffton house.
Here is
WillowBridge.
The
funny thing about this painting is that only one of the windows you see shows
the apartment where we lived. The window on the first floor behind the white
railing was our guest room. The rest of our windows were on the back side of
the building, and you can’t see them here. But it doesn’t matter, because I can
see and hear so many memories when I look at this picture.
I can
hear the gray door on the left slamming when people hurried out the side of the
building. (We were the only ones who closed it carefully.) I can see our
upstairs neighbor leaning out his window to talk to us when we went to our car
in the parking lot on our days off. (He wasn’t supposed to do that, but he
always did.) I can smell the nauseating rotten food from the refrigerator in
the upstairs front apartment after a tenant got angry with us and unplugged her
refrigerator before she moved out. When I opened the door and found all that
spoiled food…WHOA. I think of all the meals and meetings we shared with tenants
and coworkers – right there in the community room. The front doors remind me of
the message board that hung in the entry. I’d go out every morning to write a
verse or note on that board. And then over there hidden behind the tree were
two more apartments where I spent hours talking through life’s problems with
the tenants who lived in there.
And
then there’s the new and improved WillowBridge sign, replaced after a tenant
learning to drive got the brake and gas pedal confused and plowed over the old
sign. And the blue siding that was added while we lived there…starting at 6
a.m. on our day off!
You
might notice the bear beneath the sign. It was never really there, of course.
It was Amber’s nod to our ongoing relationship with our godson, because we met
him in this place.
I found
the quote on Pinterest and asked her to add it: Much of who we are is where
we have been. It’s true of us with this home. We are forever changed and
marked because of this season of our lives – for better and worse.
Amber
also painted our Bluffton house, which was the shortest house experience we
ever had. And I will tell you right now that the yard looks 1000 times better
in this picture than it ever looked in real life. Oh that summer of trying to
grow grass in a drought! It was abysmal.
We do
miss our three car garage. We miss having an attached garage! But we don’t miss
fighting with the yard or the view into the dining room of the house behind us.
The lake has been a gift in that respect.
In this
picture I see the window to my office, where I spent hours writing and working
– many times with the blinds down because we had some overzealous visitors sometimes.
And
then there’s sweet Lexi Grae’s room, where she slept every night while we
watched her on a Lexi-cam.
Our
time here was brief, and the quote feels appropriate. It was unexpected that we
landed her, and it wasn’t quite home – but we found home while we lived in this
place.
Our
gallery wall looks stunning with these two additions. We’re currently wrestling
through whether we should have Amber paint the lake house from the street side
or the lake side. (We learned at one of the HOA meetings that when you live on
a like, your lakeside door is technically your front door. Is this true?)
We
never dreamed we’d live in five homes within the first (almost) decade of our
marriage. We hope this gallery wall is complete at this time. But we sure do
love the memories we see/hear/feel when we look at this wall! Thanks, Amber,
for your masterful paintings!

1 comment:
OMGoodness, those paintings are amazing!!! I loved reading the little stories about each one.
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