Friday, April 26, 2024

Flashback Friday: Writing Your Story One Week at a Time

 


Happy Friday, my friends! I hope you’ve had a good week. We had a most beautiful night here last night. Such a gorgeous sunset! It made me want to write, which is helpful since today is writing prompt day here in this little corner of the web.

            In some of the previous weeks, we’ve talked about how quickly life changes and how taking pictures/writing about your life helps preserve the way things looked at any given point in your life. And today we want to take a look at what your first job looked like.

            What was your first job?

            How old were you when you took it?

            How did you find it?

            Did you like it?

            How much did you earn?

            How long did you work there?

            Why did you leave?

            I’m sure most of you probably already know my first job, because I’ve talked about it often. I was a babysitter!

            I always loved kids, and even when I was nine or ten years old, I would help in the church nursery, watching babies and toddlers. I think my first actual paying babysitting job came when I was about twelve. I remember a lot about that first job.

            My niece was just a few months old, and my sister needed to go somewhere for about an hour. She asked if I would babysit until my brother-in-law got home from work. Mom picked me up from school, took me out to The Comet Cone (local hamburger/ice cream restaurant) for a Coke. I was so nervous. She drove me over to my sister’s, and I spent an hour in charge of my niece. My brother-in-law was a pastor and was in his office right next door to the house, so if I needed anything, he could be there in about 30 seconds.

            The hour went very well, and it served as the start of a multi-year babysitting career. I ended up with a handful of “regulars” – mostly from church. Every now and then I would babysit for a random family that asked, but for the most part, I stayed busy with the same three or four families.

            I almost always loved this job. I loved that I had regular work, but if I had something else going on, I could always turn down a job. I loved that it gave me something to do on the weekends. I loved working for great families. One summer I had the opportunity to watch two girls every single day from 8-5. That was the best money I’d ever seen!

            One of the families I babysat for was a single mom whose husband had unexpectedly passed away when their daughter was just six weeks old. Sometimes she would go away overnight and I’d watch the kids for her. She had cable TV, and I thought that was the best bonus pay ever. After the kids went to bed, I could watch Nick at Night for hours!

            What did I earn? Are you ready for it? Two dollars an hour. I thought I was rich!

            I babysat all the way through junior high and high school and did some during college as well. Then I found my job in the Financial Aid Office and didn’t babysit nearly as often. I didn’t really leave sitting as much as I phased out of it and into something more consistent and higher paying.

            It was the perfect first job for me, and as I look back at it now, I see it prepared me well for working independently and in a freelance fashion. There are some similarities to that schedule and my speaking schedule now.

            So how about you? First job?

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