The same day we received an excellent inspection report on our new house {back in February} I started packing.
People teased me. People made flat-out-fun of me. Who starts packing in February when the anticipated move date is April 23rd?
People like me who have learned that nothing ever goes according to plan, and have the gut feeling that, in fact, this would go much FASTER.
I packed and packed. Every day. Organizing, purging, throwing away, setting aside for rummage, chronicling the journey in a scrapbook, sorting, wrapping, documenting in a binder, packing. The piles in our dining room reached almost to the ceiling {and we had tall ceilings} thanks to Ryan's superb Tetris-esque stacking skills.
I'm not kidding.
When we initially made the offer on the house, we asked if we could close on March 24th, which was the last possible day the previous owners could wait to close {we wanted to buy time for our own house to sell}, and they had asked for 30 days to leave the property. So we arranged a mental move date for the weekend of April 23rd.
In the counter-offering process, they threw in a concession to move out in 15 days instead of 30. And in our eagerness to move, we decided to leap forward and close as early as we could, which ended up being March 14th instead of March 24th. And on closing day, the sellers told us they'd be out within a week.
That's how we came to have our keys to the house on March 21, THREE DAYS before we ever thought we would even CLOSE.
This is why I started packing early.
And because our friends rock and helped us out so much in demo and painting and cleaning and {as you're about to read} MOVING, we were actually nearly fully moved to our new place by March 31.
WHAT!?!?
Here's how it started. {Part of this story is told in the podcast, too, but I wanted you to see pictures!}
Our friend Shawn had an unexpected vacation day last Tuesday. The weather was nice {for apparently the LAST time for a while} on that day, and he essentially donated his vacation day to help us move. Ryan was at work, and I was at the new house, cleaning with the {heavy} assistance of my friend Sandee. Shawn borrowed an enclosed trailer, drove to our old house {probably an hour and a half drive for him}, loaded up every one of those Tetris-stacked boxes BY HIMSELF, drove back to our new house, I helped him unload, and then he and Sandee and I drove back to the old house, half-filled the trailer again, and unloaded a second time.
This was SO not in the plan. And yet it was SO amazing. We never dreamed we would get such a blessing!! {Of course when the three of us went back for load #2, Sandee and I just started dumping the remaining kitchen items in boxes that we didn't even bother to seal. I held the Kitchen Aid mixer in my lap on the way back to the new house. It wasn't organized. But it got done.
Because of Shawn's EXTREME generosity, we were able to go back two nights later to move the rest of the furniture and other things that we hadn't had time to grab on Tuesday. We had planned to load it all up into pickup trucks and flatbed trailers {again...friends who offered to help!} but the weather made that a questionable move, so my parents helped us out with a box truck - a blessing and a half! Ryan's brother came over to help carry the heavy stuff and my Mom stepped in to document a bit along the way. {Moving in fast forward meant FAR fewer pictures of the event than this scrapbooker is comfortable with. In fact, can someone pass me a brown paper bag? I need to breathe.}
It was dark and late when we got back to our new house, but Ryan and I unloaded everything off the truck except the heavy furniture.
And the next morning, his co-worker, Nick, came to help with the rest.
And that's how it happened that we moved almost a month early, and with a healthy mix of organization and extreme CHAOS!!!!!
10 comments:
What an adventure you've all had!
Talk about a season of suddenly ;-)
Yay! Can't wait to visit!!
I'm sensing a theme in your life....wait for it.....wait for it....GO! GO! GO!
You waited a long time for Ryan then got married in just a few months. You tried to sell your house forever and then you bought a new one and sold yours and moved early!
I think unpredictable would be an excellent adjective for your life these days! I'm so happy for you guys!
Funny how it all works out and eventually makes sense.
so glad you were prepared for the unexpected.
I agree with Christina!! I think THAT needs to be the title of your new book about life, and your life is so evident of this!
wait for it... wait for it... GO! Go! Go!
yes yes, I think it's a book to be! yes yes!!
Okay now back to your unpacking, but seriously girlie, that's a book. :)
XOXO
Tamar - Adventure is a good word for it!
Erica - Oh my goodness. Hadn't even thought of it in that context. YES!!
Sheryl - We can't wait to have you! :)
Christina - I told Ryan the other day that 2 months seems to be our limit. Sometimes 2 months takes forever and sometimes it just GOES!
Shawn - YES! And thanks for helping us get to the part where it makes sense!
Odie - ME TOO!!!!
LOL Polly!! When am I going to have time to write that?? After I unpack, right?
It sounds like besides "the healthy mix of organization and extreme CHAOS," you also had a healthy dose of generous friends, and that, in my opinion, is what makes moving bearable. I'm always overwhelmed by my friends' generosity whenever we've moved.
Now I'm finally getting a chance to listen to the podcast so here are my comments as I listen to it:
Yay for a podcast from the new house! I always feel like when a plan goes out the window it means God is in charge. Unfortunately, I need to learn that lesson Every. Single. Time. a plan goes out the window.
Have you found everything yet?!?!?
"Not upper body strength gifted" -- LOVE IT! And I don't have that gift either.
I love friends who you can call on when you need them, no matter what. And I pray people feel like I am one of those friends for them.
Aren't parents just the biggest supporters when you move? No matter what, they will do the things you need -- rent a truck, buy you a washer/dryer, etc...
One of the things which is so hard about moving is the lack of routine. And moving is definitely NOT routine. And then it takes time to find how the new routines will work in new spaces.
Removing wallpaper border might get you even closer to God than a regular devotional :)
"Opportunities to say I'm sorry" -- I love that! I don't love that they happen, but I like that way of framing it.
I'm excited to keep following the adventure of Bekah and Ryan and where it continues to take you guys.
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