Friday, May 05, 2023

Transformation Tales: The Kitchen

 


When we toured the house the very first time, the kitchen was the second room we saw. It lies just beyond the tiny nook that became our dining room and is an open space that flows directly from it.

            In truth, we did less to this room than any other, because it had been recently remodeled, and we liked everything that had been done. They say kitchens sell houses, and that was true for us! For me, it was a certain little desk in the corner of the kitchen that made me fall hard and fast for this house.

            Here are some pictures I took when we first took possession of the house. The only thing that had changed from when we toured it was the removal of the kitchen table. The previous owners offered to leave their little round table with four chairs, but we weren’t sure how we wanted to organize this space, so we told them they could go ahead and take the set with them.




            There isn’t an abundance of non-cabinet wall space in this room, but we did paint the little bit of wall space that was there. The original color was a very pleasing blue, but we were trying to make the whole house fit in a very specific color scheme, so we did change the paint color here. We chose Repose Gray, which is a chameleon of a paint color. In this room, it sometimes looks gray, but honestly, it often looks light blue. Regardless, it’s a little lighter than what had been there, and we really like the choice we made.

            We took down the lace curtains, because we didn’t want to block the view. Both those windows look out over our beloved lake, and we want to see all the water without any obstruction! At this point, I don’t think I want to add any curtains here. I am a curtain girl through and through, but neither of these windows make curtain application easy without risking an obstruction of the view. Neither window has much room on either side, so we can’t extend the curtains beyond the glass.

            We did replace the main light fixture in the center of the room. The one that came with the house came down low, and we were pretty sure we wanted something more island-style in the kitchen, rather than table-style, so we knew we would be hitting our heads on a hanging light. We found a fixture at a great price that fit our style and hugged the ceiling, so we made the change.


            As you can see, the appliances that came with the house were all stainless steel and very nice! We really liked them, but we had purchased the refrigerator and stove for our Bluffton house (because it did not come with either appliance already installed) and those appliances are still under warranty. Our stove has my beloved double oven, and Ryan is partial to the refrigerator we chose, so we decided to swap those two appliances with the ones at the Bluffton house. The ones that had been at the lake were sold with the Bluffton house, and the new owners liked them very much!

            We didn’t make any changes to the flooring, cabinets, hardware, backsplash, or faucet, other than cleaning them! We really liked all of it just as it was!

            Now…can we talk about the desk? I know I already gave you a closer tour of it a few weeks ago, but here you can see how it fits in the room at large. The corner of the kitchen has this beautiful little built-in desk that looks right out over the water. The moment I saw it, I knew I could do my best work at that desk. The previous owners graciously left me that little chair, which is actually a piece of history! It came from the former local schoolhouse. It’s HEAVY and solid. I’m so excited to own it!







            We used the wall by the stairs to hang our cool coffee mug shelves that we already owned, and they fit perfectly there.


            The little piece that sits beneath them is new. The one thing we needed in this kitchen was a place to put our trash can. None of the lower cabinets worked for a pull-out trash can, and there isn’t a good, non-prominent piece of floor space to place a tall trash can. I found this little cabinet that has tilt-out lower cabinets that house two cans! We use the top to hold our coffee machines – and we scored a couple of extra drawers, too.

            We looked at dozens (hundreds?) of islands and tables that we might want to use in the center of this room, and in the end, we chose this island. It’s on wheels, so I can move it around as needed for food prep. It has a drop leaf, so I can make it bigger when I need more space, but it can hold a smaller footprint when not in use. It gives me a little extra storage for kitchen supplies, and it brightens up the space!


            And I do love this one wall that gives me space for art. I hung two recipes – one hand-written by Ryan’s mom and one by mine. I added a picture of his grandma and mine with their baked goods. (We happened upon a newspaper feature for each of them, so I framed them.) And we added a couple of coffee-themed art prints that had been gifted to us a few years ago. This mix of the people who shaped us and the things we love together make for a perfect finishing touch to this kitchen.





            We don’t have too many plans for more in this room. I suppose I could surprise myself and figure out a curtain plan after all. I will probably keep tweaking my desk setup until it’s perfect. I might scoot some things around in cabinets if I find my current flow isn’t working the way I like. But I think it’s pretty well set just as it is.


            I love this kitchen. All of our kitchens have been different in layout and functionality, but I have loved each one in a different way. This one is such a cozy room to me. Writing, eating, and coffee are among my top loves, so to get to do each of them in the same room is a sweet gift. We have a little dog bed for Lexi, so if she wants to sleep beside me while I write, she can. And she does love to hang out there throughout the day.





Thursday, May 04, 2023

It's Birthday-Day!

 


Today is a remarkable day in our household, because we now have a seventeen-year-old fur baby!

            Braeya Jo turns 17 today, and I just simply cannot believe her longevity! In her older years, she has become quite content to sit quietly and enjoy hours upon hours of naps, appearing for conversation on her timetable.


            She loves life at the lake and I’ll sometimes find her sitting by the patio door, looking at the water before returning to her napping place. She sleeps with us every night, usually choosing a spot right between my feet.




            Over the past couple of months, she and Lexi have forged more of a friendship, though they also regularly enjoy a good spat. Typical sisters, I suppose. Lexi loves Braeya and wants to play with her for hours, but Lexi is also far more energetic than Braeya cares to be on the regular, so she limits her tolerance for such playtimes.



            We love her and are amazed and thankful at her long, healthy life. Even though she prefers solitude over adventure, we are glad she is part of our family!

            Today is also my sister’s birthday, and we won’t go into age-revelation for her. But I am also grateful for her life and all the good advice she gives me on the regular.



            Today is also the 16th anniversary of the tornado that took out my sister’s town. Those of you who have been around with me for a long, long time might remember all the tornado posts from 2007. The night of the tornado, I’d celebrated Braeya’s first birthday and was about to go to bed when my mom called with the news. I had no concept of how truly bad things were until the next day, when the TV coverage was able to show daylight views. I’ve never watched so many hours of The Weather Channel in my life.

            So on this day of celebration, my heart is thankful. I am thankful for our little girl and the joy she brings to us. I am thankful for my sister and the protection God gave her the night of that tornado. And I am thankful for her resilient town that has shown such fortitude in rebuilding and forging a new life. I have learned much from them.

Wednesday, May 03, 2023

The Celebration Continues: 125 Months

 


Indiana seems to have missed the memo about the appropriate weather for the month of May. Monday, on the first day of the month, it snowed. Not measurable snow, thankfully, but visible snow. I was driving home from an appointment in Fort Wayne and was downright offended when my car sensor flashed “possible icy roads.” In MAY???

            Yesterday, in honor of our 125th monthiversary, it was frigid and rainy and gray. Thanks a lot, Indiana. 😉

            It may not have been a good day to go for a walk or sit on the patio to watch the sunset, but it was still a good day in our hearts, and that’s what matters, right?

            The alarm went off far too early in the morning, and Ryan sat on the edge of the bed to talk to me while I tried to convince myself that I really didn’t need another 45 minutes of sleep.

            That reminds me of a story I’m not sure I’ve told on the blog before. I tried to search for it, but it didn’t pop up. If you’ve heard it, you can move on to the next part. If not, enjoy this little side story. When we lived and worked at WillowBridge, one of the lessons we tried to teach our tenants was about the importance of time management. For some, getting to work on time was a real struggle, and we tried to work with them on it.

            We had one tenant who had to be at work by 8 a.m. most days. In the early days of our time there, we had to take everyone to work, regardless of how early or late they had to arrive or leave. Sometimes that meant we were on the road at 7:30 in the morning and still picking people up at 9:30 at night. This particular tenant who had to be at work at 8 a.m. struggled to get to the vehicle to allow enough time to travel safely before work began.

            We finally established some boundaries that worked, but before we reached that point, she came running to the van one day, collapsed in the passenger seat beside me and said, “Sorry! I know I’m late. I just needed 45 more minutes of sleep.”

            I couldn’t even hide the laughter. 45 more minutes? Is that even a thing? Our coworkers found that story so funny that they made me a coffee mug with that phrase on it. “I only needed 45 more minutes of sleep.” We all know that some days…it’s just true.

            And it was true of my yesterday. Alas, I got up, wrote a love note for Ryan’s lunch (something I do every day) and packed his food. We parted ways for the day, and I spent the afternoon enjoying the aroma of our dinner in the slow cooker.

            When he arrived home, we ate dinner and headed out for some dessert and coffee. We went to an adorable little restaurant that was new to us, and we will be back. It’s so tiny, but it was incredibly clean, and the people were very kind.




            The rest of our evening was spent at home doing some chores, working out, watching TV. It was a perfect end to a day.

            And it turned out I didn’t need 45 extra minutes of sleep after all!

Tuesday, May 02, 2023

Teamwork

 


Today marks 125 months of marriage for us, and I find myself extra grateful today for the gift of sharing life together. Some of you may have seen the news report this weekend of a bride and groom in South Carolina who were riding away from their reception on a golf cart when they were hit by an alleged drunk driver. The bride did not survive, and the groom (and two others on the cart) were badly injured.

            I looked at the stunning pictures of their beach wedding and thought about our own beach wedding 125 months ago. I can’t imagine the story ending that same day. My heart aches for this family I’ve never met, and it pushes me to be grateful for the gift we’ve had of getting to live out all these many chapters together.

            This weekend, we teamed up to work with our godson while he stayed with us. Toddlers and puppies require intentional teamwork!

            By Sunday night, I was fairly certain I’d failed in all aspects. While trying to help Lexi navigate a tight space WHILE holding a toddler, I managed to knock over a lamp, which knocked over a half-full coffee cup. Ryan raced to clean carpet, and I raced to rescue my Bible before it got soaked. We went through towels and blankets – and the worst part of it all was I broke the coffee mug. (Sure, we have more, but that one was sentimental.)

            But we worked together and got it all cleaned up. We worked together to get meals on the table on time. We worked together to teach new words and ideas to a little boy eager to learn.


            Life isn’t always pretty or neatly organized, but I sure am grateful for a teammate who pitches in to help. And he’s one of the best encouragers I’ve ever met, so I’m thankful for that, too!

            Today is an ordinary day. We’ll find a way to celebrate, of course, and I’m guessing it will involve coffee. Ordinary days are still good ones – great ones, in fact.

            Ryan, I love you, and I’m so thankful for our 125 months. May we never take a single day for granted!

Monday, May 01, 2023

Dreams and Goals for May 2023

 


I love it when new months start on a Sunday or Monday. It just feels like an all-around fresh start! So here we are, starting a new month on a Monday, and I’m rooting for it to be a GOOD start, not the Mondayest-of-all-Mondays kind of start. I’m also busy making dreams and goals for this month, and I want to share them with you!

ONE. Finish planning for our little birthday getaway. I have the planning underway, but I still have a little over half the trip yet to flesh out. It’s been fun so far, and I need to finish it up!

TWO. Finish my writing project for my friend. I told you last month that I had interviewed my friend who lost her baby boy, and now I need to write his story. I’ve been waiting to have a stretch of time to complete it, so I need to find that stretch of time before this month is over.

THREE. Plant flowers! I am confident it will get warm enough this month to plant flowers in our flower pots, and I’m so excited to see how they look as they grow! I’m also excited to see how things look in our neighborhood as people begin to add flowers to their landscaping. It’s been really fun to see trees blossoming here this spring, and I am sure it will only get prettier as we go!

FOUR. Work on a mini-garden plan. We have a space that I’d love to convert into a little garden, but I have less than zero skills when it comes to this. I need a tutor, I think. I’ve been trying to Pinterest some ideas, but I don’t know if I can figure it out without help. Still, I’m not ready to give up on it yet.

            I feel like there should be a more rounded version of goals for my month, but this is what I have for now. Perhaps more things will come to mind along the way, and if so, I’ll implement them!

            How about you? Any goals for May?  

Sunday, April 30, 2023

Sunday Sentiments

 


This weekend, we have our little godson with us. Because of his mom’s schedule and ours, it’s been a while since he came to stay, but it has been a joy to have him here.

            We took him with us to our small group last night, and our friends loved him so well. They pulled out toys, pushed him around in the empty tub (the best adventure), read books to him, gave him high fives and fist bumps, and didn’t get frustrated when he was loud.

            When we came home, I sat in the guest room, rocking him back to sleep, praying over his life, and thanking God for friends who love him well with us.

            Every time he comes to stay, I spend time praying out loud with him before he goes to bed. I know he probably doesn’t know what all the words mean, but I hope they somehow settle over his soul in ways that he can one day feel, even if he can’t put it into words.

            We never know who God puts into our lives for a reason. I believe God has put this sweet boy in our lives so we can pray for him and be an influence over him in the moments we get to spend with him. I want to do that well. Maybe there are other reasons he’s in our life, too, and down the road, perhaps I’ll see that, too. But for now, I am committed to praying for him and celebrating the things he’s learning to do.

            Who has God put into your path this week? Don’t miss out on the chance to be a blessing to those around you!

Saturday, April 29, 2023

Saturday Suggestions


It is a rainy weekend here in Indiana...perfect for sitting and surfing the web, right? Here are some things for you to check out if you're huddled inside away from the rain!

ONE. 

I made these for Ryan’s birthday, and (once he was no longer full from dinner) he gobbled them up so quickly! I had never made them before, but he does love peanut butter, so I found the recipe and gave them a try. They’re not healthy in any way, but they are delicious, and my guess is you probably have the ingredients on hand. They come together quickly and are worth the treat! I’m confident we will be making these often when in need of a small dessert for home or to share.

TWO. 

This song popped up on my social media feed this week. My loyalty to this song will always lie with Mark Lowry’s version, but this was beautifully done as well. Aunt B, this one is for you.

THREE. 

I ran across this unique tour of the Holy Land and loved the different spin put on it. Since I’m currently studying about Moses on mt. Sinai, this is extra special to me. While I won’t be going on this trip personally, I think it sounds like an amazing experience!

FOUR.

If you’re looking for some good spring (and yes, I know spring is nearly over) wardrobe pieces, check out this post. I like this blogger’s style, and even though I might pick some different colors for myself, I like the pieces she suggested in this collection!

FIVE. 

My sister and I were talking about tiny houses this week, and I saw this one that was just oh so adorable! I love the little round table and the unique placement of the living room! I’m grateful to live a little larger than this, but it’s still REALLY cute. (And I think the colors are calming and lovely.)

SIX. 

Prince Edward Island is still on my bucket list for someday. I stumbled upon this itinerary this week and added it to my folder of ideas. It will be so fun to go – whenever it happens! Meanwhile, I will appreciate my Anne of Green Gables themed guest room!

Friday, April 28, 2023

Reflections on Dreams and Goals for April 2023

 


April is wrapping up, and I am excited to see how the dreams and goals came together throughout this month! Here's a recap for you...

ONE. Make plans for Ryan’s Easter basket and birthday celebration. Our Easter week ended up being much busier than I realized it was going to be. (Note to self for next year: start earlier on basket prep!) But I did get his Easter basket gift figured out prior to the actual day, so we will call that a win. And though Ryan’s birthday didn’t fall on a day we were able to spend together, we still celebrated in the ways we could, and I loved the chance to spoil him even more!

TWO. Update driver’s license and get library card. I have to say, this visit to the BMV was one of the most painless I’ve ever experienced! I was in and out in no time, and the photo was even fairly decent. I’m officially updated to my new address, which meant…I could go get a library card! I went to the library on one of the days I knew my friend would be working, and she took such good care of me. She signed me up, gave me a tour, and set me free to explore and make my wish list!

THREE. Figure out plans for outdoor plants. We had a few Saturdays at home this month, which was such a blessing. During one of them, I combed through the garage and pulled out the planters we own, so I could figure out where I want to place them. That also helped me know what kind of sun/shade each would get. I have them all placed in their new homes, and I love how it turned out! And though we had nothing to do with this part, it’s been fun to see what plants were in the landscaping already and popped up when spring came to stay!

FOUR. Figure out our birthday getaway plan. Early in the month, we decided where we are going for this year’s birthday trip, and we chose our dates. Then I was able to move on to picking out what we should do while we’re gone! I think it’s going to be a fun little trip.

FIVE. Begin freelance writing project. I was able to interview my friend who lost her son to stillbirth, and I made careful notes about his story. She sent me her pictures and extra things she wants me to include, so I was ready to begin writing. I will begin the actual writing part soon. I need to have a stretch of time, and I haven’t had one yet.

Other notes from the month:

·         Ryan and I participated in several things at our church during Holy Week, and all of them were rich in meaning for us. Our small group did a seder meal, and we went to four different events at church relating to Easter.

·         Ryan sang in the church choir for the Good Friday service and also for Easter morning, and he really enjoyed that. I was the narrator for the Good Friday service. It’s been a while since I wore my narrator’s hat, and it was good to do that again.

·         We hosted our first local friends at our home this month. We had dinner with one of our couple-friends one night and then hosted our small group the very next night!

·         Ryan has been making great progress on organizing the garage. It was such a mess after our move, but he’s getting it slowly figured out. I helped with some of it, but this is more in his wheelhouse than mine, so I’ve left it mostly to him!

·         I attended a planning meeting for a women’s conference I’m speaking at this summer. I helped with this conference last year, so it felt good to have some familiarity with it!

·         We were able to put some final touches on our bedroom and guest room, which means we can check that box off the list and take the “after” pictures!

·         I set up my new day planner, which will begin in June. I’ve already filled in some days of commitments and am excited to see the story it will tell as it goes.

·         This weekend, our little buddy is staying with us, and we are excited to have him. It’s been a while since our schedules (and his) made that possible, so this is a blessing!