Can you handle one more story from the weekend?
This past Saturday night, after our day at the Back to School Bash, we met up with our small group.
Ryan and I love small groups. We led one fairly early on in our marriage - when we attended church in Marion, just down the road from where we lived. Our house was small, but we welcomed as many as we could squeeze into our little living room and thoroughly enjoyed fellowship and Bible study together.
Then we moved away to Kokomo and first led a small group made up of Ryan's coworkers. We met at his boss's house and learned together. It was a sweet group that we miss! Once we got involved in a church there, we led small groups through them, and by the time we left Kokomo, we were actually the leaders of the small group ministry as a whole. We thought we would be there for a long time to grow and expand that ministry, but God had other plans for us.
We sorely missed small group fellowship while we were at WillowBridge. We didn't feel like we could commit to a group since if we were on duty, we couldn't guarantee that we could actually be there. But toward the end of our time there, a sweet friend from our church asked us to be part of her small group. She said she totally understood if we had to cancel last minute, but if we could make it, she wanted us there. That group loved us so well, and even though we were only part of it for a few weeks before we moved, it was just what we needed.
So we moved here, and our friends invited us to be part of their small group. They said they understood if we weren't ready yet, or if we needed some space from groups in general, but we would be welcomed if we wanted to go. I think the first time we went was something like a week after we moved. It was familiar and comfortable because our friends were there, but I was also nervous to start over with new people in a new place.
But this group has welcomed us so completely. Everyone in the group is in ministry, so they all understand the push and pull of the ministry lifestyle. They've made a place for us, and we are so very thankful.
We went Saturday night, and we learned that one of the guys in our group had just graduated with his Master's degree, so we celebrated him! I made an apple crisp, one of our friends' kids made homemade confetti from crepe paper and tossed it in the air when the graduated arrived. We sat around the table and shared stories and food, and the then the guys gathered to play Ticket to Ride and the girls hung out telling stories in the living room.
I was suprised, when I got home that night, that I wasn't just flat-out exhausted. We'd had a full day of work on Friday, including two hours in a sweltering bus, we'd had the back to school bash (which Ryan also helped tear down), and I thought I'd be exhausted by bedtime. But, in fact, I felt energized! Spending an evening with friends was just what I needed.
The next morning, our church had an outdoor service (around a BEAUTIFUL pond) and received new members and baptized a dozen people!
I know church membership is something that is very critical to some and not as important to others. I thought I would explain what it means to us; it's okay if it means something different to you!
What holds eternal value is whether or not we are part of God's Church...having received Jesus as our Savior. We made that decision a long time ago, and we know we belong to Him! Our decision to be part of any local congregation is more of our statement to that particular church that we are committed to attending regularly, serving alongside others, and offering our financial support. We know that unless God moves us, we plan to be in this area for a long, long time (or forever!) so we were ready to take that outward-sign step and join this congregation.
The service was a beautiful time of worship and particularly meaningful to us as we promised to support this church.
The weekend felt like belonging, and we were so grateful.