Tuesday, November 28, 2017

Shafferland is Decked Out for Christmas!

Before you take a peek at our decked halls, we also have a little sampling of stories for you! We'll keep you company while you decorate/wrap/address cards/whatever stage of holiday you're currently in!

Is it close enough to December for me to give you the official Shafferland Christmas tour? I hope so! Grab a cup of coffee (or hot chocolate - whatever your pleasure) and enjoy the view!
 This is our living room tree, and it is by far the biggest one we have. It's our only live tree (and it's anchored to the wall in 3 places because it has a curved trunk and won't stand up straight) and it tells our story. The bulk of the ornaments on it are ones we have collected over the course of our five year marriage: souvenirs from our trips, an ornament to represent each year, gifted ornaments, and a tiny sliver of the trunk of each tree we've had. We fill out the tree with colored bulbs and garland. This is our only tree with colored lights, too. We love how it twinkles in the living room!


This is our bedroom tree. I love this one so much. (Waking up to a twinkling tree is my favorite!) This one is our Jesus tree. I have almost all the Adorenament sets from Ever Thine Home and love them all. We finish this one out all in gold, and it's so pretty. Plus, I just love seeing all the names as I walk through our room!


This is our kitchen tree, and I sure love it, too! It's our tall skinny tree that I'd bought years ago to fit in the living room of our Marion house. (Not a lot of room in there.) I deck this one out in red accents and fill it with all the S'more ornaments I've collected over the years. It is a perfectly themed tree for a kitchen!


This is our guest room tree, and our Thanksgiving guests reported it was a very cozy way to wake up in the morning: lights twinkling! This is just a little (crooked) tabletop tree with red and silver ornaments. Nothing fancy. But apparently cozy, nonetheless!
I wanted a little corner of mirth in our office, so I relocated our Colts tree there! (It's usually in a bathroom.) This is the only white tree I have, so it works well as a Colts tree. My sister called it the Ode to a Losing Team. LOL!


This year, I put the little ceramic tree in our bathroom. Any of you have one like this? Mom made it years ago, when I was still in elementary school, I think. This one was actually my great grandmother's tree - she had it in her nursing home room. After she died, I inherited it, because I was the only family member who didn't have one.
Here are a few other peeks at decorations around the house:

Our coffee cup Advent countdown:
Mistletoe. (This was our first Christmas purchase after we got engaged. We actually got it the day after we got engaged!)

Our joy and photo corner. Since my middle name is joy, I've collected a few things that say joy, and I put them all together in this area. I also display our official Christmas photo from each year and our Christmas cards!


Stockings hung by the fake chimney with care:
My little nativity scene. I love it so:
This is in our bedroom: My Advent Book, my grandparents' family Bible, and a ceramic Holy Family my mom painted years ago. (Quick note: I haven't mentioned my Advent book yet this year, but if you want a copy, you can order it on Amazon. It says they're sold out, but if you order, they will print and send one.)


And of course, I can't leave you without our newest sign for our home, as taken directly from the packaging:



So there you have it! A probably-not-so-quick tour of Shafferland this Christmas! Thanks for visiting our home!Merrc Yhristmas from our home to yours!






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Monday, November 27, 2017

Happy Thanksgiving from A Bunch of Turkeys!

I know, I know. Thanksgiving was so last week, but it was the first time Ryan and I ever hosted it since we've been married, so I feel it bears mentioning! (To excess, probably.)

In case you missed it, we actually didn't know until about a week ago that we were going to be hosting Thanksgiving. Mom had a goal to be home from the hospital and hosting it (with our cooking help) herself, but we decided that just was not going to be feasible, so we made the decision to relocate it to our house!

We also had a full house guest-wise the night before Thanksgiving, so we had to plan carefully for starting up early-morning dishes and such, trying to be as quiet as we could to respect the sleeping guests!

Ryan and I started our day about 6 a.m. - putting various meats in slow cookers. (We had turkey breast for the health conscious, turkey roast for the people who didn't care, and a small ham for the turkey haters.)

Ryan had to run to the grocery store to get a newspaper so he could comb through the Black Friday ads, so I asked him to grab some donuts while he was there. I hadn't really had the opportunity to cook up a homemade breakfast and hated to not serve our guests ANYTHING.
And yes, that's my menu/timeline there on the left.

We spent the morning on final cooking prep:


And we set up our garage for the official hosting place. We brought in some space heaters to warm it up, and it turned out to be pretty cozy. Several people mentioned what a perfect space it is for entertaining. And we agree! Worth alllllllllllllllllllllllllllllll the hours of work and the money we put into finishing it!

Even though it was Thanksgiving, I took advantage of the chance to use my Christmas dishes, so that's why the confusion there. :) Thanksmas, right?

Ryan and Jeff went to the hospital to get Mom about 10:30 that morning, and she rested in the living room until it was time to eat. She was so tired! (She did take a house tour and enjoyed all the trees.)


(Braeya wanted to be part of the day too!)

All the food was done right on time. YAY!!!!! Here's a peek at some of it:


The spread, minus one of the meat platters. Ryan was still working on it:
This was one of my favorite pictures. It's kind of blurry, so I'm sorry, but I was trying to take it so fast. I heard Dad tell Mom he was so happy she got to come to Thanksgiving, and this was the little moment:
A few shots from lunch:



And the official family photo:

Thanksgiving 2017: It's a wrap! :)


Sunday, November 26, 2017

The Shafferland Shuffle

Oh my dear people. If you need us today, just knock loudly. I fear we may be in for a lonnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnng nap this afternoon! :) But while we snore (and just excuse us for that) here are some peeks into our week!

* I told you last week that we got our Christmas tree on Saturday night, but alas, he was soaked from the all day rain fest on Saturday, and we thought it might not be in our best interest to laden him with electrical wires and such at that time. So after church and some rest on Sunday, we got him all gussied up! :) We so dearly love having him twinkle in the corner of the living room. He makes us happy, curved trunk and all!
* Monday was my mom's follow up appointment with her surgeon (or his assistant, rather...but we won't go into the sadness of not getting to see the actual surgeon!) so I tagged along as secretary extraordinaire. Apparently that office is usually pretty quick, but we had a two hour wait and we were all pooped when it was over! (Mom most of all!) That night, Ryan and I went on our unique U date, where we did random acts of kindness. It was fun!
* Tuesday morning I popped into Hobby Lobby to pick up a few things, and I found this sign I MUST HAVE at some point. Because, you know, it's just true. We were actually supposed to have a dinner guest that night, but she was sick and canceled. So I used my time to make cookies (which were amazing) and Ryan worked on paperwork, with Braeya's help, of course.

* Wednesday was the fun day when both my sisters arrived for Thanksgiving, and we got to surprise Mom! She was still in the rehab hospital and had NO idea either of them were in town. Surprise success! We ordered pizza and hung out with her at the hospital to eat dinner, and then we had a big old family B and B party here at our house. We worked on Thanksgiving dinner and then watched the DVR'd season premiere of Fixer Upper!
* Thursday was, of course, Thanksgiving, and even though I haven't really told you about it (come back tomorrow) it was a successful day! Mom got a day pass from the hospital and showed up to a house smelling of all the goodness of Thanksgiving and we had fun here in Shafferland!
* Friday was another big day for Mom, because she actually got released to go home!! My Kansas sister was still here and took a turn staying with her at the hospital for the day, going to her therapy and such, so I got some work done at home! We packed up multiple vehicles, got Mom home, set up her Christmas tree, and then Lori stayed there and Ryan and I came home and crashed!
* Ryan had to work yesterday, so I worked at home, and then last night, we hosted a (very small) gathering of my high school game night buddies! It was a simple little gathering, but we had fun anyway. None of them had seen our new house, because we haven't hosted the last couple of rounds, so it was fun to give tours!

Saturday, November 25, 2017

The Saturday Six

One.
 Holidays have a way of bringing out all kinds of stress and awkward situations, don't they? This is an excellent article about how to handle some of those sticky, frustrating times in the most grace-filled possible ways. From special dietary needs among dinner guests to kids who blurt out the wrong thing at the wrong time, there are some great solutions found here!

Two.


Some unique gift ideas in this list! If you're looking for some gifts with a twist, check it out! 

Three.

How many of these Christmas movies have you seen? I thought I would clean right up and I've only seen TWENTY of the fifty! Time to sit in front of the TV! 

Four.
My goodness - we sure do have some friends in major trenches right now. Places of deep hurt and devastating life situations. Maybe you're among them. If so, read these words from Barbara Rainey. Hope they comfort you!

Five.


If you're dreading the increase of stuff as you enter the holidays, maybe it's time to do a pre-Christmas de-clutter? Here's a great list of things to easily clean out of your house so you can breathe a bit more easily and have more space! (I must say I can't agree with the books part. That's just the writer in me. Normal people would be okay with it, I'm sure!)

Six.


Photo provided by author
 
This week I went a little bit of a different direction with my book of the week. (And I didn't have time to sit and savor nearly as much as I would have liked. You know: holidays, houseguests, hosting, and more!)

A few weeks ago, an author named Kathryn Collett emailed me and asked if she could send me a copy of her book called Phoebe's Journey Part One: Of Pride and Passion. I wasn't familiar with Kathryn's writing, but I'm always willing to read someone new (to me) so I said yes! She sent me an electronic copy of the book, and this week, I read it.

Phoebe's Journey is based on a woman in the New Testament, but she's only mentioned briefly, so you may not even be familiar with her! (Kathryn said she's actually described with a total of fifty words.) She was a believer in the early church and carried Paul's letter to the Roman church on his behalf. Obviously, since Phoebe only gets fifty words in the Bible, very little is known about her. Therefore, Kathryn's work of fiction is purely speculation on her part of what Phoebe's life might have been like.

The book takes readers back to Phoebe's younger life and the trials she faces when her father dies very unexpectedly. Phoebe and her mother struggle with not only the deep grief that accompanies their loss, but also the logistics of what to do with his successful shipping company, since women of that day typically did not conduct business affairs. As you read, you begin to see some of the character traits within Phoebe that might explain why she was chosen to work so closely with the Apostle Paul.

Some people get very nervous when authors write biblical fiction. Some find it crossing a line to take the Word of God and make it fictional. But I understand why Kathryn wanted to do it. I did similar things in my Advent devotional, because as Kathryn says in her introduction, we have a tendency to forget that the people we read about in the Bible were real people. They all had regular lives with successes and failures, hopes and heartaches, and all the same kinds of things we have now.

For that reason, I found the book interesting. It was interesting to think about Phoebe and Paul (in particular) in a real-person light. I hadn't considered what some of their day-in-day-out life might have been filled with, and this book gave me at least some options. (Whether or not they were true.) I like that about biblical fiction.

I also haven't done a ton of research on what first century life was like. The habits and customs of that day are foreign to me, so learning about them through the fun lens of fiction was interesting for me.

I will say this book has a lot of characters, and most are purely fiction. Kathryn acknowledges this in the beginning and even provides a list of characters for your reference. If I'd been reading a physical book in my hand, this might have been more helpful to me, because I could have flipped back and forth. It was too much of a pain to scroll and then find my place again, so I just tried to wing it with keeping everyone straight and it didn't always go so well for me. The names, being first century names, were unfamiliar to me and I kept getting confused on that part.

If you like biblical fiction and are interested in reading what life might have been like for one character we really know very little about in truth, this book would be a good pick for you. The stories of the shipping industry, gladiators, and the treatment of members of the early church are enlightening, if you don't know much about that part of history.

Kathryn plans two more books in this series, and the next one releases in the spring, so if you read the first book and love it, you'll have more chances to spend time with these characters!

* The author provided an electronic copy of this book to me at no charge. *

Friday, November 24, 2017

So That Was Fun!

So I think most of you know that a little over two weeks ago, my mom had a double knee replacement. She had a big goal (pre-surgery) of feeling well enough and being home in time to host Thanksgiving. That was pretty lofty!!

What she did not know was that my sister from Kansas had been planning a trip to Indiana for Thanksgiving! We didn't tell her because trekking across this section of the country in late November is always subject to weather, and no one could fully commit until the forecast was set!

We realized a few days ago that hosting wasn't going to be possible for Mom, which was hard and sad for her, but we were able to step in and host in her place! (That's why I scurried so much to decorate our house last weekend!)

But before we get to the Thanksgiving Day part, let's talk about the surprise part!

Mom was still in the rehab hospital on Wednesday, and that was the day Lori and Jeff arrived. My sister from Indianapolis came up early too, and we all sneaked into the back door of the hospital so we could tiptoe down to her room.

I say tiptoe, because a skill Mom has developed during her hospital stay is the ability to determine a person's identity by their footsteps in the hallway. So I clomped down the hall first and once Ryan and I were both in position with phones to record and photograph...the tiptoe crew came in!

 She was indeed shocked! (And so happy!)

We hung out in her room for a while, talking and catching up:


 And then we ordered pizzas and had a party in the dining room! (My dad hates pizza, so he ate the hospital dinner they brought Mom. LOL!)

Quick family picture:
And a funny picture:

We let Mom rest and the rest of us came back for a big Shafferland B&B party! (AKA Thanksgiving dinner prep!)




It was a fun night! :) Our first Shafferland Thanksgiving hosting...underway!