Saturday, September 24, 2022

The Saturday Six

 


This week's Saturday Six is a hodge-podge of items. There may not be a theme...but enjoy!


One.

I did a little cleaning up this week...on the blog! I don't know why Blogger has made all the changes it has recently, and I'm not fond of any of them. On the left side of my blog, you'll find a list of blogs I like to read. A few weeks ago, I noticed they stopped displaying the full list automatically. Only the top five on the list (in order of most recently updated) appear unless you choose to expand the list. THEN I noticed that for some reason, some blogs that have been recently updated don't show that and just fall into the bottom somewhere. Sigh. So I went through the whole blog roll this week. I deleted all the blogs that have stopped displaying (either because they've been taken private or they just don't exist anymore) along with a couple that unfortunately have changed in content so much that I can no longer recommend them. I left all the rest, including friends who haven't blogged in years but still have a published blog. (Sometimes I know things link back to a site even if it's no longer updated, so I didn't delete them.) If you are reading here and your site is missing, let me know! Hopefully it didn't delete anything it wasn't supposed to, but I don't want you to think I deleted you on purpose if you don't fall into the above categories.

ANYWAY! I say all of that to let you know that the list is cleaned up - and be sure to look at some of the sites more toward the bottom. Some of them are still very active! 

Two.

Last Sunday, when Ryan spoke at a church in our area, I checked out their library and found a whole series of fiction books published by Guideposts. The series is called "The Secrets of Wayfarers Inn" and it seems to be almost 30 books long! The series has been written by a collection of authors (not a collection on each book, but seeming to rotate a bit) and looks really fascinating. The premise, as I understand it, is that three retired friends come together to purchase a home in Ohio, and they turn it into a Bed and Breakfast and cafe. Have any of you read any of these books? I kind of want to read the entire series now. 

Three.

Earlier this week, Tamar posted about the High Line Hotel in New York City. I checked out their website to appreciate more of the beauty of the hotel, and I found this article about two dogs who got married there a few years ago. Their wedding cost more than ours! But I got a good chuckle out of the article!

Four.


I have not tried this recipe yet, but it intrigues me, and I'd like to give it a shot! A blueberry/cream cheese quesadilla breakfast. I think the hardest thing for me would be keeping the cream cheese minimal. You know...not turning it into a full cheesecake. :) 

Five.

Our neighbors have this, and it is the coolest thing. It's a little table top fire pit bowl that uses a small camping propane tank. The bowl sits over the umbrella hole on the patio table, and the propane tank stays out of site underneath the table, connecting through the hole. We hung out at their house for a bit this week and were surprised at how much heat this actually gave. Plus, the ambience was pretty perfect! 

Six.

It has been foreverrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrr since I posted a book review! That would largely be because I'm just getting back into having the time to read again! But today I'm wrapping up with a review for you. 

One fun fact about this book is that I read it on my Kindle! A couple of years ago, one of my sisters gifted me a Kindle, but of course...I didn't have time to read right then. But I read on Instagram that this particular book I'm about to review for you was free on Kindle one day, so I charged it back up, downloaded the book, and read it from cover to cover. (Full disclosure: I'm still 100% team tangible books, but I do see the convenience of sometimes reading on a Kindle.)

The book is called RVing Across America, and it's written by Alyssa Padgett. I started following Alyssa (and her husband, Heath) on Instagram several years ago. Their account is one of my favorites, and they were actually a HUGE part of the reason why we began dreaming of one day doing this very thing: traveling the country in an RV. 

This book is not Alyssa's first, though I have not yet read the first book. That one is called A Beginner's Guide to Living in an RV, and when the time comes that this is our life, I will certainly be reading that. But this book, RVing Across America, tells the story of how they got into this full-timing life and all about their first trip.

Heath and Alyssa were in their early 20s and recent college graduates - and engaged - when Alyssa came up with the brilliant idea to take a full year-long honeymoon, in which they would travel all fifty states. Heath and his entrepreneurial heart agreed immediately to the plan, and that was the start of one of the most incredible honeymoon trips I've ever read about!

They bought a used RV (without even really knowing anything about RV life), got married, and set out on their travels. They lived on quite a meager income that first year. Heath pitched to a company the idea of getting a job for a day in each of the 50 states, filming content about his experiences, and sharing his video and some blog posts Alyssa would write in exchange for a (small) paycheck. They agreed, and for the bulk of that year, that was how they survived.

The book tells the stories of their traveling and job adventures, yes, but it also tells about how they learned to navigate life together as they drove unfamiliar roads, dealt with RV breakdowns, delays, changed plans, and more. They learned to camp for free when they could - in parking lots and friends' driveways - and stop to regroup when it all became overwhelming. 

Alyssa is an engaging storyteller, and I paused to read a few of their adventures to Ryan, because they were so funny! 

The travels sped up throughout the book. At the beginning, her storytelling was much more thorough about their first few stops, jobs, and camping experiences. Later in the book, she merely mentioned states they passed through without pausing to tell the stories of those states. While I understand that the book would have been a thousand pages if she had kept up the thorough pace, I did want to know more about some of those later jobs and states, just as I'd wanted to know about the first ones. 

The future full-time traveler in me learned a ton from her about how traveling in this manner grows and changes you. I learned it's okay to wait for that growth and change and not try to force it to take place. I learned that it's both good and important to find like-minded people who chase the same dreams you do in order to fuel your passion to continue. Not everyone has or understands this dream, and that's okay! They don't have to. But when you feel discouraged, surrounding yourself with people who do what you do is key.

My only true complaint about the book was on the very first page. She began by telling a story from early in their travels, and the man she was talking to used some less-than-savory language. I really don't enjoy reading bad language in books and will typically nix the book if I find it. I decided to see if it continued throughout the book, and it did not at all. I wish she would have edited his quotes to eliminate the unnecessary words, but she didn't. After that, though, the book was clean and engaging. I am glad I gave it another chance.

If you have a secret longing for this kind of travel, I would recommend reading this book. It gives you an idea of what full-time RV life is really like - a mix of the serene and insane moments. It's also just a fun adventure to read in general, even if you don't aspire to become a full-time traveler. 

I'm glad I found the free download notice, and now I'm ready to resume planning our dream trip!

Friday, September 23, 2022

Sweet Memories, Round 4


I am continuing my Friday memory-keeping, in which I look back over this last decade of life that Ryan and I have shared. I have loved looking over these memories and reminiscing about all the fun things we've done! 

Month 37: Making the Memories

This month was actually terribly ordinary (which is not a bad thing AT ALL). I camped out on the pictures of our Christmas with Ryan's family, because we had no idea that in just a couple of years, we would be celebrating our last Christmas with Nita. As I looked over our gathering from this year, I saw so much joy in the family. Everyone was all dressed up, we had a great meal together, there were new babies, and it felt like everything would always be this way. As I look back, I am so very grateful that we captured these memories, just so we can smile at them now! (Also, can we pause to appreciate the beautiful grapevine tree? Allen made it.

Month 38: Ca-CAW!!!!

This memory just made me straight up LAUGH. It was from right at the start of the month. I had read online that many of the Indiana state parks have a New Year's Day hike of some kind. They're free and are intended to get people out in nature. We had a park not far from where we lived, so I asked Ryan if he wanted to go for the hike. He had to work that day, but it was an evening hike, so it worked out. It was SO COLD, so we were buried under about 100 layers of clothes and looked like Puffalumps. The hike was an owl hike, and we never saw a SINGLE OWL on that hike. But we did get a big kick out of the lady calling for them all the way down the trail: "Ca-CAW!!!! Ca-CAW!" We still say that sometimes. 

Month 39: Shafferland on the Move

This was the month we decided to take the leap and move closer to Ryan's work. I was working from home, so there was no real need for us to stay in Marion anymore. (It had been the midpoint between our jobs when we both commuted.) We ended up finding a home in Kokomo that was literally three doors down from Ryan's work, which would mean instead of driving 45 minutes each way every day, he could walk 5 minutes each way. WIN!!!!!! The whole process of buying our first home together and putting our Marion house on the market was a wild exercise in faith. This photo was one Ryan's mom took on the fly while she was on the phone with him hearing about our upcoming move. The cross that shadows the faith...perfect. This picture was significant to us during that season! 

Month 40: Buying our First Home Together

This was the month we officially signed for our first home together. The night we went over to walk through the house for the first time as owners was SO chaotic. We got possession of the house a week sooner than planned (no complaints there!) and happened to be dog-sitting a Great Dane at the time. We took him with us for our first walk through the house and in the first five minutes, he peed right in the middle of the white carpet in the living room and tore a hole in the screen door. It wasn't the serene evening we planned, but it was memorable!!

Month 41: The Surprise Move

Our friend Shawn had a day off work and access to a trailer, so even though Ryan was at work, he offered to come move as much of the stuff as we had packed if we wanted. (Now THAT is a good friend!) We ended up moving earlier than planned - and in stages, rather than all at once. After Shawn moved the bulk of our stuff, we rented a U-Haul and finished up with the last of the things. We also spent this entire month demoing, renovating, and painting the new house, making it our own! (My mom said we are the only people she knows who take a move-in-ready house and completely redo it. :) 

Month 42: Selling the Marion House


And for all the lovely hellos, there have to be some goodbyes, right? This was the month we officially sold our house in Marion. It was the hardest house-goodbye I've ever done, because I had lived the first sixteen years of my adult life in that house. That was our first home together. That had been my grandparents' house. But we were so excited for the new owner, and as far as I know, he still lives there. He got married and has a baby now, and I love it that he has established a life and family there in that home that was created for life and family. 

Month 43: Dates, Dates, Dates

We spent so much of the past couple of months working on the house, that this month seemed devoted to going on dates. We wanted to explore every inch of our new hometown. We went to the Strawberry Festival, a Jackrabbits baseball game (minor league team in town), Kokomo Beach (water park), Ribfest, fireworks in our neighborhood, and a drive-in movie. WHEW! It was a lot of variety in a single month, but it was also a lot of fun, and we appreciated the extra time to do things like this...time given to us by the gift of NOT COMMUTING.

Month 44: Garage Makeover!

This was the month we completed our garage makeover! We wanted to use our garage as an extension of our home, so we insulated and drywalled it, painted it, and put down a flooring treatment. We definitely used that garage a ton, and this was time and money well-spent. (Bonus: we were later interviewed by a newspaper about this makeover!) We loved how it turned out, and I think this is one of our best DIY projects ever!

Month 45: CRAZY and FUN!




How to even pick just one thing from this month??? The crazy Shaffers started the month by pulling an all-nighter to drive to Kansas to surprise my family (by showing up early) for my niece's wedding. And then there was the wedding itself...which was fun! Then we came back home and there was a tornado right by our house. And THEN we hosted my mom's surprise birthday party for her 80th birthday. OH! And we went to my 20th high school class reunion. You know...just a few things for a month.

Month 46: Fun County Date
Thankfully this month calmed down from the last one. One of my favorite memories from this month was a county tour! We went to Tippecanoe County, where we have some friends, so we were able to see them in addition to visiting a small zoo and hiking in a state park! It was a really fun day - and gorgeous, too!

Month 47: New Era in Speaking



Earlier in the summer, I had spoken at a retreat in Ohio, and Ryan did not go with me. It was a weekend retreat, and the warfare I experienced was SO intense that I instituted a new policy: no more traveling without Ryan. We hate being apart anyway, and I need him to support me in prayer when I'm traveling and speaking. So this month marked the first time we traveled TOGETHER for a women's retreat. It was fall and the leaves had started to turn. The campground was on a lake and we had a house all to ourselves. It was like a mini-vacation AND a work event all rolled into one. We had the best time. And I have not forgotten the cinnamon roll we had for breakfast one morning. LITERALLY the best one I have eaten to date. STILL.

Month 48: Hosting Together
We wrapped up this year of marriage by hosting a craft night in our newly renovated garage. It showed us (again) why we love hosting so much and (I think) ushered in a new commitment to be the couple who opens their home for others. 

It was a crazy year full of SO much change. But what a heart-filling year it was, too! 

Thursday, September 22, 2022

TEN MONTHS!


 

Our sweet Lexi Grae turned ten months old yesterday. 

She's grown a lot in ten months:


Can you even believe it???

I thought I'd show you some of her adventures from the past month! :) 

She's started doing this thing that cracks us up. If she's sitting on the couch, and we reach over to pet her back or belly, she just starts leaning slowly sideways. If she leans toward the back of the couch or a pillow, she will lean into that completely. Otherwise, she just falls over with all her legs spread out wide like, "SCRATCH ME!" Watching her topple is so funny. It's like slow motion.

So far, she's not too old to give great hugs. I'm sure the day is coming. 


She still waits with ALL HER MIGHT when Ryan comes home from work. Her entire backside trembles while she waits. (Unfortunately, now that school is back in session, she sometimes gets the school bus confused for Ryan's car and goes running to the door to welcome him...and it's not him. Sad day.)

It's started to be cool enough in the evenings to sit outside sometimes. She has her own chair and spends her time overseeing everything in her view. 

We also hit the part of her life where she murdered every stuffed toy she had. We had a good run with all those toys, but now we have to have harder toys, because the stuffies were all gutted. We got her this hard ring tug toy, and she thought it was the enemy. She just barked and barked at it. It's sitting in her toybox, waiting for her to figure out it's NOT after her and actually is fun to play with. 

My sweet cuddle girl. (Funny story: a few days ago, I was taking a nap when she ran over and plopped on top of me. She stretched out beside me with her nose against mine and started whinnying like a horse until I acknowledged her presence. Then she went back to sleep. LOL!)


Hoping for scraps. (That was a no.)

She LOVES Ryan. And she LOVES to lick his head. 



Got to see Grandpa this month! They were both pretty happy about that.

Walks are still life. She loses her mind with joy the minute we put on our sunglasses. She knows. (And boy is she disappointed when the sunglasses go on because we're leaving for church or something!)


They're both the cutest!

So that's an update on Lexi! She watched the Queen's funeral on Monday and spends a lot of time watching home improvement shows, too. Give her a holler if you need a kitchen remodel. She should know how! 

I don't even know how it's possible that she is going to be a year old in two short months, but it's true!















Wednesday, September 21, 2022

The REST of the Weekend!


 

...which actually included no rest.

It was ironic to me that after teaching about being still, the minute the retreat ended, I had to hurry into the public bathroom at the hotel to change into a dress so Ryan and I could make our way to a wedding! We had almost exactly the amount of time we needed to get there, making a QUICK stop for lunch on the way. 

I can't post much about the wedding, since the bride hasn't posted anything, but I can show you our cute date picture!


The venue was GORGEOUS and the ceremony was simple and sweet. I adored the bride's dress. So pretty. And she was so pretty IN it!

After the wedding, we drove home, pretty tired from the long weekend of activity. We saw SIX deer on our way home, which you know totally made my day, but it also terrified me because I was so afraid one of them would dart out in front of our vehicle! (I kept yelling, "WE ARE YOUR FRIENDS!!!" - but I'm guessing that didn't mean much.)

And then on Sunday morning, Ryan spoke at a local church to represent Love INC. Speaking of gorgeous buildings, this was definitely beautiful!


The windows were just stunning. 

We set up our table...


...and Ryan gave the message. (The minister was out of town for the weekend.) Ryan did a great job not only sharing about the work of Love INC but how all of us are called to do our part in the Body of Christ! 


I was so proud of him. He did an amazing job!


And that concluded our weekend of speaking a little bit of everywhere. (Ryan also prayed over dinner at the wedding, we really did speak at every single thing we attended.)





Tuesday, September 20, 2022

The End of a Retreat

The retreat where I served this past weekend was a two-day event, so we wrapped things up on Saturday! The first session that day started at 8 a.m., so we had to get up at 6:00 to get ready and have breakfast. Ryan was SO excited for biscuits and gravy! (And apparently reading the paper.)



After breakfast, we headed to the day's first session. There was a sweet little kitty lurking outside the window, and she kept trying to get to my finger through the glass!! 
The ladies who led worship did another great job - even for so early in the morning!
 After that session was over, we had a little free time, so Ryan and I took a few minutes to run over to the patio furniture place we love so much and do some dreaming! (Playground equipment, too - for Ryan.)





We got some coffee and then went back to the hotel to pack up our room and check out. The final session was at noon, but we had to be checked out by 11.

The last session went well (or at least I hope it did!) and now all I can do is leave the weekend in the Lord's hands and trust that He will use the message however He will!



Thanks, ladies, for inviting me!! You were a blessing to me!