Saturday, September 14, 2019

The Saturday Six

One.

Of course this week marked the remembrance of September 11th, and I found this post which contains peeks inside the 9/11 memorial in New York City. Ryan and I have never been to New York City, though it is on our bucket list. And this is one of the places I want to go - and stay until I've covered every inch I can possibly see. Have any of you been there?

Two.

I know, I know. Fall is barely here and no one wants to think about Christmas. THAT'S OKAY!! But even though I promise I'm not decorating (yet), I am definitely in full brain-power mode of thinking of things I already own that I can Christmas-ify for this season, and I'm on the lookout for amazing sales in case I happen upon any. So when I stumbled upon this blogger's tour of her home, I found all kinds of ideas I didn't want to forget. So maybe this item is more for me than it is for you, but in case you want to plan too....

Three.

Let's all just be honest, here: this shelf? Not a bad idea at all. We all know it.

Four.

I've been working on archiving some really old blog posts (from my own blog), and that recently led me back to this recipe post from about a decade ago. It's a fall party mix that is absolutely divine in a not-healthy kind of way. So if counting calories is lower on the list than serving a fabulous treat, give it a try! (And I'm sorry about my ten year old photography. It wasn't my finest work. But it was my best work at that time.)

Five.

I did not know there was a Land of Oz in North Carolina; did you? (Some of you from that direction probably actually knew that!) I found this post this week and it looks like SO MUCH FUN! It also looks like it's not open very often, but it's worth filing away in travel ideas, right? Maybe someday we'll be headed that direction on a day it's open!

Six.

Ryan and I will mark our seventh anniversary in December (YAY!!!) and I told him the other day I'm just beginning to see the first glimpses of some kitchen stuff we'll need to be replacing within a year or two. We love our dishes so very much, but in seven years, we've lost a few to cracks and chips (and complete dropping-and-shattering) so I know we'll eventually need a new set. And the pots and pans that I use nearly every day are beginning to show some serious wear, so I want to watch for a great sale on some quality replacement pieces. Just that kind of stuff. I found this post about the top 20 most popular wedding registry items for 2019, so I read it out of sheer curiosity.

From this, I learned that we don't own too many trendy things. HA! I do own one of the glass measuring cups. (Although I will say I prefer the angled cups that allow you to measure looking down from the top.) And we do own the Oxo storage containers from our own wedding registry days, and I LOVE THOSE. I would actually love to add a few more pieces to that collection. They make our pantry so beautiful, and it's easy to tell when we need to refill a staple item. We don't own a Roomba (by brand name) but we do own a similar vacuum, and she's a little lifesaver, our Rosie. We also own the #1 item on the list (and it was a wedding gift for us) which is a Kitchen Aid Stand Mixer. I had wanted one for years before getting married, and she was worth the wait. Little Miss Mixy is one of my best friends in our home. (We name everything, if you're new and didn't know that.)

Anyway! Do you have any of the items on that list?

Friday, September 13, 2019

Sprucing Up Our Home Office

I love blogging. I love the way it reminds me of things I'd absolutely forgotten. And today's post begins in just such a way.

For those of you who may be new(ish) to our blog, let me catch you up with the information that Ryan and I have lived in this house for 3 1/2 years now. (WHAT?!) Though the house was move-in-ready in terms of functionality when we purchased it, we spent he first couple of months putting our own personal touches on nearly every part of the house.

This is the post I wrote back in 2016, when I took you on a tour of the bedroom that we transformed into a home office. I read the entire post as I write this one, and that's where I found what I'd forgotten!

* First, I had forgotten what it looked like when we first bought it. The carpet, the paint, the wallpaper border, that really old and boxy mounted television...whew!

* Secondly, I had forgotten that I said this: "Today's room is one of my very favorites, and yet as I took pictures, it feels like one of the least complete. I guess I shouldn't say 'least complete' as much as I should say it's the one with the most room for continued growth."

And indeed it has been.

* I also didn't remember that Ryan kidded me about the paint color I chose for the room. The other evening, as we recorded our podcast, he looked around the room and said, "You know, I really like the color of this room."

Alas, just a couple of months after that lovely blog-tour, we had to take apart the entire room and replace the flooring. You can read the whole sad story here, but the bottom line was that our cat's one act of rebellion against moving into a new home that apparently she did not ask to have was marking her territory in the office. She had never done that in her entire life, and she's never done it since, but she did it then. We did everything we knew to try to remove that awful smell, but nothing worked. So we dismantled the entire room and put down a laminate wood flooring and moved back in. (The second round of after pictures are here.)

And now I bring you round three.

Kind of.

We didn't do any major changes. No new paint. No new flooring or even curtains or any such thing. But I did spruce up the room, because it needed something fresh.

Over the course of the last year, with Ryan's mom's sickness and death, with helping Ryan's dad and step-mom fix up a house to sell, and with projects we've had going on elsewhere here at home, the office became the catch-all place. I'm sure you can understand. You've probably had a room like that in your house at some point in time.

Our office sits out of the way from the flow of traffic in the house and it was an easy place to throw the mail, papers, stuff to sort, extra things, you name it. After about a year of throwing things into the room, "later" finally arrived. I had ceased to be able to find a creative corner of my mind inside that room. It was time to deal with it, and I did. I spent about a week working on overhauling the room from top to bottom, and I think it's done enough to write about it!

(I say it that way, because I have also come to the conclusion that thriving homes are probably never really done. There's always something to switch around, spruce up, breathe new life into, and in so doing, keep freshness alive. One of my friends recently told me that she and her husband try to do projects - big and small - regularly so their home never falls behind in repair and in life. I love that philosophy.)

* It started with the bookshelf. This big, beautiful shelf, built especially for me by my dad, is where I store all my nonfiction books. Since high school, I've always alphabetized my books, but I realized that in this rather small space, alphabetized looked chaotic. The books were all shapes, sizes, and colors, and it just looked like a big splotch of mess covering an entire wall.

So although I always said I'd never do it, I took all the books down, arranged them by color, and reshelved them. It may take some time to learn where they all live now, but I love the quiet beauty of how the colors fade in and out of one another. It is lovely to me, and it inspires me to be organized and methodical in my work. Best of all? It didn't cost me a thing except some time.
By the way, those brown boxes that are up on top of the shelf used to be in a closet, but I needed the space in the closet for something else, so I brought them out and put them up there. I don't need to access them on a daily basis, so it's not a big deal that they're up high. And the tan memo board on the wall is actually Ryan's. I bought it for him as a Christmas gift early in our marriage, and I leave it all up to him to fill with the pictures and notes he chooses. So I didn't make any changes to that.

* Next up was the desk. The "desk" in our office is actually a dining room table that used to belong to Allen and Nita. When they got a new set for their cabin, they put this one in storage for Ryan to have whenever he wanted it. We ended up bringing it to our old house a few months before we moved, and then we brought it here. What you see in the picture is actually the smallest it will go, and we didn't have enough space to fit it in our kitchen. We decided to see if it would fit in the office to save us money on buying a desk, and it worked!

But it's big. Very, very big. And it has always been positioned in such a way that it stuck out into the center of the room, claiming most of the floor space. Ryan's big office chair and my big exercise ball chair also took up quite a bit of space. Add the cluttered desktop we've had for a few months, and this whole middle area was just an absolute disaster.

So I cleared off the whole desk, cleaned it thoroughly, dumped all the things Ryan and I need to sort into boxes so we can do just that, moved out the big bulky chairs, and slid the table around sideways, so it doesn't claim the entire floor.

On my IKEA shopping trip, I found these two sturdy little stools for about $15.00 each, and purchased them to replace the bulky chairs. They slide completely under the table when not in use, giving us even more floor space.

I brought the folder filing system up off the floor and put it on the desk, cleaned off and reorganized the lazy Susan that holds our pens and staplers and such, and brought the diffuser in to fill the room with inspiring scents.

Now I have plenty of room to lay out my projects, hold my laptop, keep my day planner, AND multiple cups of coffee and water.

* I slightly spruced up the second shelf. I actually have two bookshelves that mirror each other, but the other shelf holds my fiction books. Since they tend to look more orderly in their series formations, I didn't make any changes to that, but I did try to clean up some of the paper piles on lower shelves. I brought out some storage baskets I bought months ago at the Dollar Tree and filled them with more office supplies (tape, envelopes, rubber bands, scrap paper, etc.) and now all those things are right where I can reach them.

* Then I shopped the house. This last corner of the office saw the biggest improvement. What had been a floor space littered with items thrown in to be sorted later became actual clean floor space. I threw out things we didn't need, found homes for things that should have been put away a long time ago, and added to our "sort now" boxes with the rest. I started making lists on my whiteboard, updated my magnetic calendar, and then I turned my attention to the podcasting space.

The table that did live in this corner to hold our podcasting supplies had been mine for about 20 years. I bought it from a friend right after I graduated from college, and it has served all sorts of purposes over the years. But it did take up quite a bit of space in the office, especially when you consider the huge dining room table sitting opposite it. So I took it apart entirely, and we'll be putting that in a garage sale next summer. Meanwhile, I shopped the house and brought in this cute little table that more than adequately holds all the podcasting supplies without sticking way out into the room. The stools that sit under the desk can slide right across the room when needed for podcasting and then go back under the desk when we're done. And with that, we eliminated two extra chairs from this room.

I bought two metal boards for about $6.00 each on my IKEA trip, and Ryan's going to hang them on either side of our caricature. They'll serve as my organization areas for our church ministries.

* I cleaned the closet, too. I won't bother showing you that since it includes the cat's food and litter, which really isn't that exciting to see, but I did get rid of a bunch of junk that had been thrown in there, and I organized what was left so I can find what I need when I need it!

And now I can be creative again...and I already have been! Clean and inspiring office-spaces for the win!


Thursday, September 12, 2019

Fall Fashion

I said last week that I wasn't sure I'd link up with this Fall Favorites list this week, because the topic is fall fashion, and I think we can all safely agree that I'm not a fashion blog.

Don't misunderstand: I'm not against fashion blogs. I enjoy looking at them, actually. But I'm not really known for being a fashion statement, nor do I particularly obsess about it. I am more of a Goodwill and garage sale shopper than I am a consumer of any high end store. And I downsized to a mostly capsule-sized wardrobe about four years ago, so I'm not sure how exciting it would be to look through what I have and talk about my own fall fashion.

With all those disclaimers out of the way, here I am with some thoughts of pieces I might find fun to get if I could find them at a decent price this fall! (Also thrown in are some inspirations of items similar to those I own.)

(Side note: I've noticed that most people who post about fashion look everywhere but at the camera for their photos, and this has just gotten fixed in my little brain and made me giggle! There was no way I could do a photo shoot of my own, because I would laugh right through my attempt to throw a pensive glance off to the side!)

1. Long Sweaters
'If you've been around here very long, you know that I do struggle with fall and winter because I am so hot blooded, and most cold-weather clothing is too hot for me. Layering, therefore, is my friend. Last year, I was gifted a hand-me-down long sweater (mine is black and white) that I wore quite a bit! I'm looking forward to having it back. And I like this whole look. I am a fan of simple, timeless looks.

2. Sweatshirt!
Remember when I told you the embarrassing story about junior high Bekah who used to tuck in her sweatshirts and put a belt over them? She has grown up from that massively awkward phase. I actually just got a brand new sweatshirt last week - a gift from one of my small group friends. It is SO comfortable and feels like the perfect fit. It's a little bit long, but doesn't look big and boxy. (Mine is blue with a coffee saying on it.) I would dearly love to wear it just like this, but I still cannot bring myself to wear leggings as pants, even with a long shirt. I just can't do it.

3. Button Down Shirt
I'm deep in the mode of trying to figure out what we should wear in our annual pictures, coming up just over a month from now. Last year I wore a turquoise sweater (see our photo at the top of the blog) but I've long wanted some sort of fallish button-down to wear for picture day. I like this one. Perhaps it will serve as an inspiration piece!

4. Scarves!
I do like scarves, because even though I overheat easily, they're great layering pieces! I am still in the process of learning more ways to tie and arrange them, but I do have several new ones that a friend gifted to me last year (she said she desperately wanted to be a scarf person but has decided she just isn't) and I'm excited to try them! Since so many of my shirts are plain, to make it easier to use them in a capsule, scarves are a great way to pull in patterns and color.

5. A Proper Denim Jacket
I have a denim jacket that is a bit on the dressier looking side. It is designed to look more like a blazer. I have yet to find a good, proper, casual denim jacket that doesn't look business-casual. But if I find one at a good price...I'm getting it!

6. Back to My Utility Vest!
I reviewed a vest similar to this one for a boutique a couple of years ago, and it remains one of my favorite pieces. Mine is tan, rather than olive, but I love it. I dress it up and dress it down, and it's one of my favorite layering pieces. (And it has lots of pockets, which is one of my favorite things in any given piece of clothing.)

7. Tights!
I love these cute little dresses, but I absolutely do not have the body type for them. I always look way too fat and run the risk of being mistaken for a pregnant girl...which I am NOT. But I do love adding tights to dresses! I have half a dozen or so of them, and I am looking forward to adding them to my dresses!

8. BOOTS!!
I do love boots. Need I say more?

I think these are the things I'm looking forward to the most about fall fashion. And now I need to learn to look anywhere but AT the camera, so I can match 100% of these examples.

PS - You can catch some other fall fashion ideas (from people who are far more knowledgeable than I) at Sarah and Emily's link-up party!

Wednesday, September 11, 2019

Growing, Changing, Remembering

I perused the Shafferland blog archives to see if I've written about 9/11 every year, and I was quite surprised to see I've actually not written about it more times than I did make it the subject of a post.

It surprised me because 9/11 was a life-marker for me. I did not personally know a single person who died that day, nor did I know someone who knew someone who knew someone lost or injured.

But the day marked me - as I'm sure it marked you.

This was the Bekah of 2001:

I was every bit as unsure of myself and naïve as those pictures would indicate. In some ways, I was wise beyond my years, but in even more ways, I was dreadfully immature with so much growing to do.

That day (as was true for many) became the swift kick into growing up. It provided more questions than answers, but it pushed me to realize that the neat and tidy world I had perceived was gone forever. In truth, it probably never really existed, but it did in my mind until that day.

It was the first day I ever truly felt alone.

My parents were on vacation. My roommate worked an opposite shift from mine, and she was at work that evening. My ex-boyfriend (that I still believed would one day pick me) was out of town on business. Everyone else huddled with their own family and friends, and I huddled with the Lord, and so began a new level of intimacy in our relationship.

I think this is why 9/11 every year is such a life-marking day for me. I clear my calendar, and I watch the documentaries - all of them I can find. Some of them I watch every single year, and others are new. I watch for two reasons.

First and foremost, I never want to forget the people whose stories changed forever that day. They will always matter, and I want to give them an audience. It's just a thing I want to do in their honor and memory.

Secondly, I watch them - and watch them alone - because I never want to forget what that day meant for my life, even as far removed from the actual event as I was. I want to remember how alone I felt and how God met me in that fear. I want to remember how that scared, immature, naïve girl began to grow up. I want to remember how the unknown of that day fed into the unknown of my life and how God used it to grow me.

The Bekah of 18 years later is still sometimes immature. She's still sometimes naïve. She's still sometimes scared.

But she has come so far. She is in no way the same girl she was in those first pictures you saw.

None of us are the same. That day changed each of us (who have memories of the day, anyway) in personal and unique ways.

So today I will sit and watch my documentaries. I will hear the same stories I heard last year and the year before that. I will hear new stories. I will give the people of 9/11 my ear and receive the stories they tell.

And today I will sit and remember how God changed and grew me on that day and in all the days since. He is good. Even on that hard, unspeakably tragic day, He was good. And on this day, which is equally hard and unspeakably tragic for some, He is still good.

Tuesday, September 10, 2019

Our First Air Show, Part 2

Before I show you the rest of the air show pictures, it's podcast Tuesday, so here's your fresh supply of stories. We sure made ourselves laugh this week, so we hope you'll laugh with/at us!

Want to see a few more pictures from the air show? I promise not to show you all 400! :) 

These guys were a lot of fun to watch!

Lori, I'm sorry you didn't catch a ride on this one! It came from your fair state and flew right back home after its appearance!
If you've heard the podcast, you heard us talk about the wing walker. See her out there?
She was one brave girl! Because as you can see...she moved to the top!
 And why not add flying upside down while standing on top???
I was so nervous for her!

The Thunderbirds flew the day we were there; weather kept them from flying the next day. This was the only time we needed earplugs, but my goodness - they were magnificent!





A great show! So glad we were able to go! :) 

Monday, September 09, 2019

Grissom Air Show

For those of you who aren't from around here, you might not know that there's an air reserve base just north of Kokomo. It's one of those places we've had in our backyard our whole lives, and neither of us had ever been there. (Everyone has those places, right?)

Several months ago, we read about plans for an upcoming air show at the base, and neither one of us had ever been to one of those either! It was a two day event, but we planned to go on Saturday. It turned out to be a gorgeous day. (A little more gorgeous than the forecast thought, so we didn't exactly dress appropriately. I hope all the sweat comes out!)

We went in the morning and spent a little bit of time looking at the planes. They had them open for people to tour. We would have loved to go through more of them, but we ran out of time before the show started, and then the show went so much longer than we thought it would, and we just wanted to come home when it was done. But here are a few pictures from the planes!








We had a great seat for the air show - behind the VIP area. We were close enough that we were able to see some of the low-to-the-ground stunts pretty well!

We had chairs, and we took plenty of sunscreen, but it was so sunny and so hot! The articles we read about the show said people were allowed to bring empty water bottles and fill them at water stations throughout the show, but we never saw any of them. We bought water, but it was pretty expensive, so we tried not to go crazy. I'm pretty sure we both had some dehydration going on when we came home.

My picture taking turned out better than I thought! I hadn't taken all my lenses, because I wasn't sure they'd let me take them all through security, and it wasn't exactly the kind of setup where you could just run back to the car very easily. And looking into the sun meant I often couldn't see what I was trying to photograph. So I was pretty excited to have a good selection of pictures! Here are some of the many I took.

The American flag arrived via parachute during National Anthem. (The guy that sang the anthem did a fantastic job, by the way.)
I am not a plane expert. I'm barely a novice! So I don't know the names of most of the planes, but hopefully you can enjoy their beauty anyway.


Yes! That last plane is upside down. There were lots of twirls and turns throughout the day!

We also saw some parachutes!

And more planes...
 They did a demonstration of how a rescue effort would have looked during Vietnam. They said the people in this demonstration were all Vietnam vets, and they received quite an ovation on their way back down the runway.
I feel like that's quite a string of pictures already, so I'll save the rest for tomorrow! (I took over 400 pictures, so I promise you're truly getting just a sample!)